To truly be vulnerable is not an easy thing.

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It courage to share our deepest shame, fears, or doubts.

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To tell someone our story of pain can be painful.

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Yet being vulnerable is about more than just our stories.

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It is about more than just our words.

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Yes, it may take courage to share our tale of grief and regret.

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We must truly feel safe to tell someone of our betrayal or suffering.

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Yet to embrace the real qualities of being vulnerable, it takes something more.

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Something far more difficult than just recounting some deep pain or sorrow.

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It is about sharing our raw, naked emotions.

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For when we stand up and not just tell someone how we feel, but actually show how we feel, that is truly being vulnerable.

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To allow others to see us experiencing our pain, our hurt, & our shame is so much more difficult than describing it.

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Real vulnerability come from our eyes and our bodies, not just our mouths.

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We take it in not only through our ears, we take it in with our whole being.

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And then we feel your pain, not just know your pain.

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We feel your guilt, your shame, your loneliness.

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That is the gift of being vulnerable.

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For when we express our emotions in such a visceral manner, other feel them too.

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It gives us a chance to connect.

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Not only with the person sharing their vulnerability, but with ourselves.

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It brings us closer together, for now we know that someone else has truly felt the same way we felt.

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And that vulnerability brings us together and creates real community.

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For the shared experience of someone sharing their pain for us to see is both humbling and opening for us.

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It opens us up to share ourselves more fully.

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We are encouraged to display how we are feeling deep inside.

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And as we share with each other the sense of safety increase, and we can share even more.

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This kind of vulnerability does not come easily.

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It is not something we can allow ourselves to experience without safety.

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Yet in community, when we are being held so compassionately, it can be the mostly healing experience of our lifetime.

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To be open enough to truly show what we feeling inside is for the brave.

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And the rewards for that bravery is beyond measure.

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Is there something in your life you can be more vulnerable about?

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Do you have someone whom you feel safe enough with to share those inner emotions?

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~ Sam Liebowitz, The Conscious Consultant

Host of The Conscious Consultant Hour