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[NEW EPISODE] Healing with Love and Compassion

Jacinta Yang has a story to tell, and so do her clients. She is the author of three books: Let Your Heart Speak: Truth Lies Within, Take Charge: Reclaim Your Life and Be Your True Self, and My Spiritual Journey: Life as an Empath.

Jacinta offers Reiki, Reflexology, and Crystal Healing, guiding her clients through a transformational journey to release emotional burdens, restore balance, and reconnect with their true selves.

She brings deep wisdom and heartfelt presence to every session — and now, to our listeners.

In this heartfelt conversation, Jacinta shares the inspiration behind her healing journey, how love and compassion have shaped her approach, and the role of spirituality in her life.

Drawing from her personal growth and spiritual awakening, Jacinta brings gentle strength and sensitivity to her work, helping others transform and reconnect with their inner truth.

YouTube: Jacinta Healing Arts

Podcast: Self Aware Soul on Spotify

Instagram: @JacintaHealingArts

Facebook: Jacinta Healing Arts

#JacintaHealingArts #Empath #ReclaimYourLife

Tune in for this empowering conversation at TalkRadio.nyc

Music:  https://meditationmusiclibrary.com/ The tune is "My Relaxing Piano."


Show Notes

Segment 1

Linda Marsanico opens The A Train to Sedona by sharing her memoir’s message of love, compassion, and spiritual growth, while offering listeners her “Cheat Sheet for High Vibration Living” to help stay grounded in the present moment. She welcomes guest Jacinta Yang, a healing practitioner and empath whose journey through illness and alternative medicine led her to Reiki, crystal healing, and creating a safe, nurturing space for deep transformation. Jacinta shares how embracing her empathic gifts and spiritual guidance has allowed her to support others in releasing burdens, reconnecting with their true selves, and living with greater love and compassion.

Segment 2

Jacinta Yang shares how a lifetime of health struggles, surgeries, and personal challenges—including cancer scares, leaving a difficult marriage, and caring for her ill father—ignited her determination to take control of her healing and inspire others. Out of her resilience and desire to support others, she began writing books, creating workshops, and eventually launching her YouTube channel, podcast, and her 12-module Healing Journey program, which has guided many through deep personal and spiritual transformation. Now, with her upcoming show Beneath the Calm, Jacinta seeks to provide a safe, compassionate space especially for men, addressing the hidden burdens they carry and encouraging openness, healing, and authentic connection.

Segment 3

In this segment, Jacinta Yang opens up about her upcoming show Beneath the Calm, which is designed to create a safe space—especially for men—to release hidden burdens and explore healing without judgment. She shares the challenges of stepping out of her introverted comfort zone, guided by mentors and her clients’ encouragement, to bring her gifts into the world and foster openness across both men and women. Through her Healing Journey program, Jacinta helps people unpack the “suitcase” of limiting beliefs and self-doubt, guiding them to release what no longer serves them so they can embrace self-acceptance, freedom, and reconnection with their true selves.

Segment 4

In this closing segment, Jacinta Yang shares transformative stories from her healing practice, including clients whose self-assessments mirrored the wisdom in her books and a man who found breakthroughs after struggling with traditional therapy. She emphasizes breaking the stigma around men seeking help, encouraging them to embrace vulnerability and healing with the same compassion extended to all. Together with host Linda Marsanico, Jacinta highlights the central role of love, compassion, and self-awareness in spiritual growth, inviting listeners to release judgment, embody kindness, and commit to the inner work that leads to freedom and authentic connection.


Transcript

00:00:33.270 --> 00:00:40.400 Linda Marsanico: Hello, everyone! Welcome to the A. Train to Sedona broadcast. I'm Linda Marsanico.

00:00:41.750 --> 00:00:57.070 Linda Marsanico: The A. Train to Sedona is also the name of a memoir. I wrote about my journey to love and compassion. I wrote about my failures and my successes in the hope that my journey will inspire yours.

00:00:57.740 --> 00:01:11.120 Linda Marsanico: You can get a signed copy on my website@lindamarsenico.com on. Buy the book page. You also can get a regular copy at Amazon, Walmart, Barnes, and noble, and bookstores.

00:01:12.130 --> 00:01:14.349 Linda Marsanico: I have a free gift for you.

00:01:14.550 --> 00:01:18.019 Linda Marsanico: I call it the cheat sheet for high vibration living.

00:01:18.180 --> 00:01:28.339 Linda Marsanico: There are 7 exercises designed to keep your energy in the present moment and vibrant today I'll highlight prayer.

00:01:29.060 --> 00:01:46.680 Linda Marsanico: Prayer is an activity that allows me to feel connected to all there is to Creator, to my neighbors, to my brothers and my sisters. I use my own words, and I speak to God all day long. Thank you for this. What do you think about that feeling connected

00:01:47.450 --> 00:01:55.290 Linda Marsanico: in a really comforting way, you can download a free copy of the cheat sheet on my website

00:01:55.570 --> 00:01:57.650 Linda Marsanico: at lindamarsenico.com.

00:01:58.550 --> 00:02:13.279 Linda Marsanico: Now I have 2 disclaimers, one, that this broadcast does not establish a professional relationship, and also that the opinions expressed here do not necessarily represent talkradio dot New York City.

00:02:13.630 --> 00:02:23.840 Linda Marsanico: Today I am excited to welcome Jacinta Yang, who was joining the family of Talkradio Dot, New York City, on September 3.rd

00:02:24.080 --> 00:02:32.379 Linda Marsanico: Her show debuts. It's called beneath the calm, and she will be on at one PM. Right after my show.

00:02:34.170 --> 00:02:37.520 Linda Marsanico: Jacinta Yang is a healing practitioner.

00:02:37.780 --> 00:02:42.120 Linda Marsanico: author and founder of Jacinta healing arts.

00:02:42.340 --> 00:02:58.120 Linda Marsanico: She offers reiki reflexology, crystal healing and a transformational healing journey program to help people release emotional burdens, restore balance and reconnect

00:02:58.230 --> 00:02:59.869 Linda Marsanico: with their true selves.

00:03:00.570 --> 00:03:09.649 Linda Marsanico: Guided by love and compassion, Jacinta creates a safe and nurturing space where deep healing unfolds. Naturally

00:03:10.320 --> 00:03:18.250 Linda Marsanico: drawing from her own path of personal growth and spiritual awakening. Jacinta shares her wisdom through her books.

00:03:18.580 --> 00:03:21.579 Linda Marsanico: Let your heart speak truth lies within.

00:03:22.620 --> 00:03:26.169 Linda Marsanico: Take charge, reclaim your life, and be your true self.

00:03:27.010 --> 00:03:30.099 Linda Marsanico: My spiritual journey, life as an empath

00:03:31.070 --> 00:03:54.119 Linda Marsanico: through her podcast self aware soul and Youtube channel Jacinta healing arts, she continues to inspire others worldwide with guided meditations, healing messages and heartfelt reflections that empower people to embrace their authentic selves and live with love and compassion.

00:03:54.710 --> 00:03:58.629 Linda Marsanico: Jacinto, welcome to the show, and you need to unmute yourself.

00:03:59.750 --> 00:04:07.780 Jacinta Yang: Thank you. Thank you. It's an honor to be on your show today, and I'm really grateful for this opportunity to be introduced.

00:04:08.630 --> 00:04:21.099 Linda Marsanico: And later on in the show we'll talk a bit more about the show. But I have a couple of questions, and the 1st one is what influences from your past bring you to where you are today.

00:04:22.300 --> 00:04:28.209 Jacinta Yang: I think it's what we have experienced in our life that bring us to where we are today.

00:04:28.980 --> 00:04:34.970 Jacinta Yang: how I started this healing practices

00:04:35.130 --> 00:04:49.640 Jacinta Yang: through my own personal struggle with the different medical conditions and numerous surgeries, numerous treatment, and really not having

00:04:49.790 --> 00:04:52.750 Jacinta Yang: one that was helping me to

00:04:53.550 --> 00:05:01.710 Jacinta Yang: feel better, or really have a quality of life. I had to embark on this alternative feeling.

00:05:02.550 --> 00:05:05.579 Jacinta Yang: and I've tried every different type of

00:05:05.730 --> 00:05:12.610 Jacinta Yang: alternative healing out there from Chinese traditional medicine acupuncture.

00:05:14.850 --> 00:05:20.429 Jacinta Yang: I think this sauce very awful, tasting herbs

00:05:20.590 --> 00:05:26.210 Jacinta Yang: as well as well as Reiki reflexology, and all of that. And

00:05:26.760 --> 00:05:32.850 Jacinta Yang: when I found Reiki that was introduced to me by one of my clients, and

00:05:33.380 --> 00:05:37.600 Jacinta Yang: I started that. I tried that, and I noticed that I wasn't.

00:05:37.970 --> 00:05:43.519 Jacinta Yang: I wasn't in making regular monthly hospital visits.

00:05:45.170 --> 00:05:48.920 Jacinta Yang: Then I thought there was something to this energy healing.

00:05:50.170 --> 00:05:54.210 Jacinta Yang: and that led me to think that okay, you know.

00:05:54.400 --> 00:05:57.109 Jacinta Yang: maybe this is something I can

00:05:57.600 --> 00:06:01.750 Jacinta Yang: do and learn and and get educated in that.

00:06:02.320 --> 00:06:08.805 Jacinta Yang: Perhaps I could help other people through the ceiling, I think what really

00:06:10.100 --> 00:06:18.920 Jacinta Yang: prompted me to go into this healing is because when I was trying alternative medicine and of course I wasn't really able to work.

00:06:19.090 --> 00:06:23.270 Jacinta Yang: And when you're not able to work financially, it's a big struggle.

00:06:23.440 --> 00:06:28.080 Jacinta Yang: and lot of the practitioners have timed.

00:06:28.410 --> 00:06:31.910 Jacinta Yang: Oh, schedule a treatment.

00:06:32.130 --> 00:06:37.840 Jacinta Yang: So with the with what I could afford, I

00:06:38.130 --> 00:06:43.330 Jacinta Yang: I guess I would get the minimum hourly treatment.

00:06:43.800 --> 00:06:51.919 Jacinta Yang: And I really didn't find too much help at that time. It's like, you feel like you're not quite

00:06:52.450 --> 00:06:54.950 Jacinta Yang: feeling much of a difference.

00:06:56.490 --> 00:07:01.329 Jacinta Yang: So I thought, when I do do decide to do this practice.

00:07:01.330 --> 00:07:01.780 Linda Marsanico: -

00:07:01.780 --> 00:07:08.280 Jacinta Yang: Will do it in such a way that it won't be timed by half an hour or an hour

00:07:08.680 --> 00:07:12.959 Jacinta Yang: at least. I want the client when they come to me.

00:07:13.340 --> 00:07:18.480 Jacinta Yang: and then when they get off my table, they will feel a difference

00:07:18.690 --> 00:07:23.800 Jacinta Yang: and not feel the pressure of I'm not quite there yet.

00:07:24.110 --> 00:07:29.499 Linda Marsanico: So you have a time, expansive model, where you go longer than

00:07:29.630 --> 00:07:31.960 Linda Marsanico: how do you know when to stop.

00:07:32.380 --> 00:07:43.329 Jacinta Yang: Actually, interestingly through this journey, I felt that I was guided by my healing guide and

00:07:43.770 --> 00:07:51.460 Jacinta Yang: having a strong intuition and being an empath, I can actually feel a person's ailments.

00:07:51.790 --> 00:07:52.230 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:07:52.230 --> 00:07:58.449 Jacinta Yang: And initially, I was taught that I should not take on their pain when I'm

00:07:58.730 --> 00:08:01.299 Jacinta Yang: when I'm healing them.

00:08:01.300 --> 00:08:02.130 Linda Marsanico: Yeah.

00:08:02.130 --> 00:08:07.600 Jacinta Yang: But I thought that wouldn't help me if I did that right away.

00:08:07.740 --> 00:08:13.089 Jacinta Yang: So I would actually allow myself to feel what they're feeling.

00:08:13.260 --> 00:08:18.789 Jacinta Yang: So while I work, and when I feel them relieved, I feel the relief.

00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:29.040 Jacinta Yang: So in a way you can say intuitively, I work so there has been time that my session can last up to 2 h.

00:08:31.060 --> 00:08:33.030 Linda Marsanico: And when did you go? Please.

00:08:33.260 --> 00:08:38.879 Jacinta Yang: And I was often told by clients, how is it when I come here I feel a difference.

00:08:39.020 --> 00:08:41.509 Jacinta Yang: Then when I go to a massage therapist.

00:08:41.720 --> 00:08:47.209 Jacinta Yang: and I often tell my clients when you do come. Please don't be in a rush.

00:08:47.330 --> 00:08:54.029 Jacinta Yang: because I do not watch my sessions, and a friend of mine asked me, How are you going to make a living

00:08:54.450 --> 00:08:55.589 Jacinta Yang: doing that?

00:08:56.510 --> 00:08:58.869 Jacinta Yang: I said, well, I do have other skills.

00:08:59.450 --> 00:09:03.619 Jacinta Yang: My healing would be purely for healing.

00:09:03.990 --> 00:09:09.000 Jacinta Yang: And if I need to support myself, I can use my other skills.

00:09:09.110 --> 00:09:17.869 Jacinta Yang: I'm also a floral designer, and I'm very artistic and crafty. So I use those skills to support myself.

00:09:18.870 --> 00:09:21.819 Linda Marsanico: How clever of you!

00:09:21.980 --> 00:09:25.109 Linda Marsanico: When, Jacinta, did you realize you were an empath.

00:09:27.070 --> 00:09:31.449 Jacinta Yang: Oh, I didn't even know the word empath

00:09:31.720 --> 00:09:34.469 Jacinta Yang: then, but growing up, I always felt

00:09:35.450 --> 00:09:38.790 Jacinta Yang: and sense things, and oftentimes I didn't know

00:09:38.970 --> 00:09:42.570 Jacinta Yang: that I was feeling somebody else's pain. So, as a child.

00:09:42.980 --> 00:09:49.910 Jacinta Yang: if I went shopping with my sister I often came home sick, and my mother would just.

00:09:50.310 --> 00:09:52.570 Jacinta Yang: I guess. Stop me from going out

00:09:53.340 --> 00:09:58.140 Jacinta Yang: so. But you know I wasn't aware of that until I guess.

00:09:59.650 --> 00:10:03.519 Jacinta Yang: not too long ago, I would say. But then.

00:10:03.820 --> 00:10:09.630 Jacinta Yang: 10 or so years, but I have experiences that I felt

00:10:10.200 --> 00:10:14.120 Jacinta Yang: maybe I would say more like 15 years. But I didn't really take

00:10:16.500 --> 00:10:22.405 Jacinta Yang: I didn't take it seriously, but I learned how to protect myself and

00:10:23.410 --> 00:10:26.240 Jacinta Yang: over the years, I guess, before I used to.

00:10:26.420 --> 00:10:33.969 Jacinta Yang: aside from my personal health condition, I would be making regular hospital visit.

00:10:34.080 --> 00:10:39.619 Jacinta Yang: but I also made regular hospital visit because I picked up somebody else's pain.

00:10:39.980 --> 00:10:45.910 Jacinta Yang: and they didn't know they couldn't find anything wrong with me because it was not mine

00:10:46.720 --> 00:10:53.760 Jacinta Yang: and I guess you know the universe leads you to materials and.

00:10:54.020 --> 00:10:56.910 Linda Marsanico: Information that comes to you, and then I.

00:10:57.290 --> 00:11:05.020 Jacinta Yang: I understood. Oh, this is what I am, or who I am, and that's why I was feeling, and initially, I think I

00:11:05.360 --> 00:11:10.890 Jacinta Yang: I didn't want to accept that as a gift, because it was very difficult to deal with.

00:11:11.190 --> 00:11:13.934 Linda Marsanico: With this gift and

00:11:15.490 --> 00:11:20.829 Jacinta Yang: I did not want to acknowledge it at first, st but

00:11:21.600 --> 00:11:28.320 Jacinta Yang: I realized by not accepting it. I was making it harder for myself, so

00:11:28.700 --> 00:11:32.460 Jacinta Yang: I had to learn to accept it, and learn to understand

00:11:33.360 --> 00:11:39.179 Jacinta Yang: what are the advantage of being an empath, and having learned to

00:11:39.570 --> 00:11:45.130 Jacinta Yang: protect my energy and learning how to

00:11:45.260 --> 00:11:54.149 Jacinta Yang: not take on somebody else's pain or emotion, it made it easier. And so I started to mentor other empaths.

00:11:56.810 --> 00:11:57.619 Linda Marsanico: Let's see.

00:11:58.730 --> 00:12:01.480 Linda Marsanico: So what would you say, Jacinta?

00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:04.819 Linda Marsanico: What is the role of spirituality in your life?

00:12:08.730 --> 00:12:10.890 Jacinta Yang: I think it keeps me

00:12:15.600 --> 00:12:17.550 Jacinta Yang: honestly, I

00:12:17.850 --> 00:12:26.240 Jacinta Yang: don't know how to answer that, but I think spirituality has always been a part of my life ever since I was young.

00:12:26.340 --> 00:12:30.660 Jacinta Yang: but I didn't understand. That was being spiritual.

00:12:32.060 --> 00:12:43.649 Jacinta Yang: And as a child. I recall when I was in school I often felt, you know, compassion

00:12:43.860 --> 00:12:46.620 Jacinta Yang: for the people that was less fortunate.

00:12:47.280 --> 00:12:47.970 Linda Marsanico: Yes.

00:12:47.970 --> 00:12:53.660 Jacinta Yang: And I spent a lot of time with the nuns. I went to Catholic school.

00:12:53.910 --> 00:13:01.559 Jacinta Yang: and I often like to ask them how their life was what they did, how they lived their life.

00:13:01.950 --> 00:13:05.639 Jacinta Yang: and I was really inspired by the fact that

00:13:05.980 --> 00:13:10.099 Jacinta Yang: they committed their life to helping others.

00:13:10.680 --> 00:13:13.850 Jacinta Yang: And honestly, I wanted to be a nun

00:13:14.120 --> 00:13:17.599 Jacinta Yang: at that time because of how they lived their lives.

00:13:19.190 --> 00:13:19.695 Jacinta Yang: And

00:13:20.810 --> 00:13:27.910 Jacinta Yang: So I thought that that's what I would want to be, but life has a different

00:13:29.060 --> 00:13:34.880 Jacinta Yang: plan for me, coming from the culture I am from.

00:13:35.360 --> 00:13:37.439 Jacinta Yang: My marriage was arranged.

00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:43.690 Jacinta Yang: and the nuns, who I hung out with a lot learned a lot with, did a lot with.

00:13:44.050 --> 00:13:47.279 Jacinta Yang: She knew that this is what I wanted to do, and

00:13:47.420 --> 00:13:49.920 Jacinta Yang: she also knew that the

00:13:50.590 --> 00:13:58.629 Jacinta Yang: my family arranged my marriage, and she told me, Jacinta, the reason you want to be a nun is because you want to help people.

00:13:58.950 --> 00:14:02.949 Jacinta Yang: and so you can still do that even when you're not a nun.

00:14:03.350 --> 00:14:05.280 Jacinta Yang: So I guess that's what I'm doing now.

00:14:06.090 --> 00:14:07.090 Linda Marsanico: Indeed.

00:14:07.960 --> 00:14:12.720 Linda Marsanico: Now it is time for us to take a commercial break, and when you come back

00:14:12.910 --> 00:14:26.530 Linda Marsanico: I would like you to share a little bit more about what inspired you to begin your healing journey. You did touch upon it. But, listeners, when we come back I'm going to ask Jacinta a little bit more about this important beginning for her.

00:00:26.980 --> 00:00:34.730 Linda Marsanico: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the A. Train to Sedona. I'm Linda Marsanica with my guest, Jacinta Yang

00:00:34.940 --> 00:00:42.210 Linda Marsanico: Jacinto. Would you say a little bit more about what inspired you to begin your healing journey.

00:00:43.070 --> 00:00:51.030 Jacinta Yang: And I, we speaking about my personal healing journey, are we talking about the healing journey program that I started.

00:00:51.250 --> 00:00:53.160 Linda Marsanico: Which would you prefer to address.

00:00:53.550 --> 00:00:59.819 Jacinta Yang: I guess I can start with the how I got started with my own healing. That led me to

00:00:59.990 --> 00:01:10.210 Jacinta Yang: what I'm doing today, I would say, since I was a child I've had lot of health issues.

00:01:11.033 --> 00:01:15.590 Jacinta Yang: Starting when I was 6 I had typhoid.

00:01:16.540 --> 00:01:22.419 Jacinta Yang: and I guess that kind of led me to have a very long immune system.

00:01:23.490 --> 00:01:28.610 Jacinta Yang: So I was missing a lot of school, and fortunately

00:01:29.070 --> 00:01:31.300 Jacinta Yang: I I would say I do.

00:01:31.500 --> 00:01:39.419 Jacinta Yang: We did have photographic memories. So in spite of missing school, I would just, I guess

00:01:40.090 --> 00:01:47.780 Jacinta Yang: I would study just by photographically remember things. So oftentimes I would just go write exams.

00:01:48.260 --> 00:01:53.060 Jacinta Yang: and I guess I was also fortunate that I did well.

00:01:54.670 --> 00:01:58.489 Jacinta Yang: And in my twenties

00:02:00.700 --> 00:02:05.489 Jacinta Yang: My health was actually starting to go down.

00:02:05.610 --> 00:02:07.760 Jacinta Yang: I experienced.

00:02:08.250 --> 00:02:10.590 Jacinta Yang: I had a lump in my breast.

00:02:10.900 --> 00:02:18.270 Jacinta Yang: and the doctor did not take me seriously because of my age, and it continued to grow.

00:02:19.000 --> 00:02:27.069 Jacinta Yang: so I sought out another doctor, and then Doctor said, Well, you're still young, and you've had tests done, so I'm not going to do anything.

00:02:27.330 --> 00:02:27.970 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:02:27.970 --> 00:02:31.600 Jacinta Yang: And it continued, then I went to the 3rd doctor.

00:02:32.472 --> 00:02:36.130 Jacinta Yang: The lung continue to grow. The symptoms

00:02:36.730 --> 00:02:38.550 Jacinta Yang: were kind of frightful for me.

00:02:39.180 --> 00:02:48.249 Jacinta Yang: so eventually I found a doctor who actually took me seriously, he said, I know you're young, and you haven't been taken seriously, but I don't like

00:02:48.700 --> 00:02:52.949 Jacinta Yang: the sound of the fact that you have all these symptoms and.

00:02:52.950 --> 00:02:53.540 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:02:53.540 --> 00:02:56.259 Jacinta Yang: The tumor is growing. So I'm gonna

00:02:56.550 --> 00:02:58.000 Jacinta Yang: I'm going to take it out.

00:02:58.390 --> 00:03:04.799 Jacinta Yang: So this way, you won't have to worry about it, and also to ensure that

00:03:05.010 --> 00:03:07.310 Jacinta Yang: there's no cancer cell spreading.

00:03:09.030 --> 00:03:16.060 Jacinta Yang: So at that same time I was also going through my father's illness, taking care of him

00:03:16.190 --> 00:03:19.440 Jacinta Yang: through his chemotherapy. My! While I kept

00:03:19.840 --> 00:03:24.710 Jacinta Yang: this news to myself and my family, because I did not want to burden them

00:03:25.150 --> 00:03:29.339 Jacinta Yang: on top of what they were all going through with my dad.

00:03:29.510 --> 00:03:30.860 Linda Marsanico: What courage you had.

00:03:31.870 --> 00:03:37.110 Jacinta Yang: And while at the same time I left my marriage

00:03:38.740 --> 00:03:42.940 Jacinta Yang: That was also detrimental to my health, and

00:03:44.180 --> 00:03:47.319 Jacinta Yang: I guess I didn't really have time to

00:03:47.800 --> 00:03:50.929 Jacinta Yang: think about. Oh, my God, what's happening to me?

00:03:51.160 --> 00:03:57.610 Jacinta Yang: I guess I was very. I've always been very analytical and a problem solver.

00:03:58.050 --> 00:04:06.260 Jacinta Yang: So it's like, okay, here's the problem. This is what I need to do. Here's a problem. This is what I need to do. So actually.

00:04:06.680 --> 00:04:08.890 Jacinta Yang: having my brother going through

00:04:09.408 --> 00:04:18.609 Jacinta Yang: his cancer right now brought all of that back to me. And I'm thinking, Okay, you know, there's something this I need to teach people.

00:04:18.990 --> 00:04:22.579 Jacinta Yang: So I was just writing content about my next episode

00:04:23.010 --> 00:04:27.880 Jacinta Yang: or my sorting my Youtube about how we can try

00:04:27.990 --> 00:04:33.119 Jacinta Yang: to just stay grounded and focus in what need to be done rather than self-pity.

00:04:35.330 --> 00:04:42.320 Jacinta Yang: So I spent about 7, 8 years of my life being in and out of the hospital. I've had 8 surgeries

00:04:42.730 --> 00:04:47.709 Jacinta Yang: and tried every treatment that was available. Eventually the doctor gave up on me.

00:04:48.040 --> 00:04:51.789 Jacinta Yang: I was told that you're going to die slowly and painfully.

00:04:52.060 --> 00:04:52.960 Linda Marsanico: Hi.

00:04:52.960 --> 00:04:57.919 Jacinta Yang: And I guess I was very determined.

00:04:58.090 --> 00:05:00.479 Jacinta Yang: and I said to myself, You know what

00:05:00.740 --> 00:05:03.790 Jacinta Yang: I'm not going to let this illness take my life

00:05:04.120 --> 00:05:10.120 Jacinta Yang: or take control of my life, I will take control of my life, and

00:05:10.550 --> 00:05:20.190 Jacinta Yang: it wasn't easy. I have to say there were times, you know, when the pain is excruciating. You're not having a quality of life, it can get depressing.

00:05:21.340 --> 00:05:27.889 Jacinta Yang: So when I felt that I was falling into that

00:05:30.030 --> 00:05:34.990 Jacinta Yang: stage, then I had to find a solution to come my, get myself out of that.

00:05:35.560 --> 00:05:37.809 Jacinta Yang: So I decided to start a business.

00:05:38.750 --> 00:05:39.809 Linda Marsanico: Take action.

00:05:40.000 --> 00:05:50.820 Jacinta Yang: Yeah, so yeah, so that's what I did. And while I still continued with different treatments and

00:05:52.450 --> 00:05:59.189 Jacinta Yang: trying every treatment there was, and still, you know, force myself out of bed and work because

00:05:59.640 --> 00:06:02.669 Jacinta Yang: I had no one else but myself to support myself.

00:06:03.580 --> 00:06:08.630 Jacinta Yang: So I guess that's kind of you can say what kept me going, and I think.

00:06:09.050 --> 00:06:14.450 Jacinta Yang: thinking back now without everything that's going on, that what kept me going was

00:06:15.050 --> 00:06:18.099 Jacinta Yang: when my son he was 8,

00:06:18.450 --> 00:06:29.320 Jacinta Yang: and I was going through different surgery. I I saw that he looked sad, and I said, Are you okay? He said, no, mommy, I'm scared. I said. What are you scared of? He said.

00:06:29.610 --> 00:06:34.270 Jacinta Yang: I'm scared. You're gonna die, and I don't know what I will do without you.

00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:35.110 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:06:35.110 --> 00:06:41.069 Jacinta Yang: And I said, Were you scared even before, when I had the other surgery? He said, yes.

00:06:41.420 --> 00:06:44.880 Jacinta Yang: I didn't say anything because you didn't say anything.

00:06:45.460 --> 00:06:49.229 Jacinta Yang: So I said, Okay, from now on we're gonna talk.

00:06:49.420 --> 00:06:52.520 Jacinta Yang: Whatever I'm gonna go through. I will keep you informed.

00:06:52.910 --> 00:06:57.119 Jacinta Yang: And I guess that just that sentence.

00:06:57.690 --> 00:07:03.460 Jacinta Yang: you know, kept me going. That okay? You know I gotta survive this because I don't want my son.

00:07:03.900 --> 00:07:04.420 Linda Marsanico: Yeah.

00:07:04.420 --> 00:07:07.980 Jacinta Yang: Worry about me. So yeah.

00:07:09.240 --> 00:07:11.970 Linda Marsanico: Thank you so much for sharing that, Jacinta.

00:07:12.450 --> 00:07:16.789 Linda Marsanico: Can you share a personal experience that led you to write your books.

00:07:18.312 --> 00:07:24.267 Jacinta Yang: I guess. When I went through a lot of things and I've survived them. And

00:07:24.910 --> 00:07:29.269 Jacinta Yang: some of my friends said you need to share your story to help other people.

00:07:29.670 --> 00:07:31.920 Jacinta Yang: And you know where you're today

00:07:32.060 --> 00:07:38.379 Jacinta Yang: and you survived them, how you went through it and how you survived through it. You need to write your story.

00:07:38.380 --> 00:07:38.990 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:07:38.990 --> 00:07:44.660 Jacinta Yang: And every time I sat down with it I guess my pen didn't moved

00:07:45.460 --> 00:07:48.199 Jacinta Yang: so it didn't. It didn't really happen.

00:07:48.830 --> 00:07:51.849 Jacinta Yang: And I guess during the lockdown.

00:07:52.370 --> 00:07:54.019 Linda Marsanico: I had plenty of time.

00:07:54.210 --> 00:07:54.980 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:07:55.480 --> 00:08:04.859 Jacinta Yang: So, just before the lockdown, I started to write my initial. The 1st book is called Take Charge, reclaim your life, and be your true self.

00:08:05.130 --> 00:08:07.720 Jacinta Yang: Initially, I was going to write

00:08:08.140 --> 00:08:11.020 Jacinta Yang: sort of like, more like of a biography

00:08:11.420 --> 00:08:15.089 Jacinta Yang: and the title I was going to title it born into

00:08:15.620 --> 00:08:21.314 Jacinta Yang: a prison, because I felt I was born into a prison, you know, from a very

00:08:21.980 --> 00:08:26.040 Jacinta Yang: sheltered life, and then being married off to

00:08:26.500 --> 00:08:32.869 Jacinta Yang: to another family that was controlled. So it it did feel like a prison.

00:08:33.110 --> 00:08:35.130 Jacinta Yang: but of course, riding through it.

00:08:35.270 --> 00:08:36.760 Jacinta Yang: there was a lot of tears.

00:08:38.580 --> 00:08:39.390 Jacinta Yang: Then.

00:08:41.179 --> 00:08:45.960 Jacinta Yang: Then I changed my mind, and I said, No, I don't want to write

00:08:46.370 --> 00:08:51.850 Jacinta Yang: a biography. I want to write my story, too, really help people

00:08:52.060 --> 00:08:58.449 Jacinta Yang: really help inspire people. So I I changed. How I wrote my book is

00:08:58.630 --> 00:09:02.759 Jacinta Yang: you know what I went through, what I did and how I overcame that.

00:09:03.310 --> 00:09:07.880 Jacinta Yang: So it became more like a guidebook, and then,

00:09:08.720 --> 00:09:14.909 Jacinta Yang: Few years ago, I did a I facilitated a workshop called Take charge of your life

00:09:15.220 --> 00:09:23.740 Jacinta Yang: in the community. It was sponsored by roots connecting community and United way.

00:09:24.110 --> 00:09:26.839 Jacinta Yang: and I had a lot of participant.

00:09:27.170 --> 00:09:31.330 Jacinta Yang: and they found it very helpful. They've seen growth within

00:09:31.510 --> 00:09:38.829 Jacinta Yang: within the participant, and they were sharing how they've seen growth with each other in a matter of 2 or 3

00:09:39.200 --> 00:09:40.370 Jacinta Yang: sessions.

00:09:41.100 --> 00:09:45.339 Jacinta Yang: And they all said they wanted more of this.

00:09:45.570 --> 00:09:46.830 Linda Marsanico: How wonderful!

00:09:46.830 --> 00:09:52.870 Jacinta Yang: And then I was awarded a certificate of recognition for exceptional impact.

00:09:53.400 --> 00:09:53.940 Linda Marsanico: Hmm.

00:09:53.940 --> 00:10:00.270 Jacinta Yang: So that's kind of led me to now do more and more of what I can do to help people

00:10:00.560 --> 00:10:03.640 Jacinta Yang: well, personal and spiritual growth. So that's

00:10:04.606 --> 00:10:10.570 Jacinta Yang: that's how my Youtube and the podcast. Came about because

00:10:10.760 --> 00:10:17.470 Jacinta Yang: everyone was saying, Jacinda, you need to have a Youtube channel. I said, Oh, my God, I have no technical skills.

00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:26.409 Jacinta Yang: And fortunately we had a program here in our town that help businesses, you know.

00:10:26.540 --> 00:10:32.899 Jacinta Yang: with the digital transformation and all that. So I sign up for every

00:10:33.610 --> 00:10:36.919 Jacinta Yang: every workshop that was available. I had a mentor

00:10:37.110 --> 00:10:42.750 Jacinta Yang: mentoring me, teaching me on this digital skills. And

00:10:43.350 --> 00:10:51.670 Jacinta Yang: I started the Youtube. And then, when I did a meditation at a conference, and the participant

00:10:52.040 --> 00:11:05.599 Jacinta Yang: came up to me, said, Jacinta, you have to have a podcast I said, oh, my God, I can barely even think of how to do a Youtube. Now, I'm going to do podcast. So I said to my mentor, Okay, this is, what people want. Can you teach me how?

00:11:06.630 --> 00:11:10.719 Jacinta Yang: So that's how my podcast and Youtube channel was born.

00:11:11.880 --> 00:11:15.420 Linda Marsanico: You have very loyal clients, who.

00:11:15.750 --> 00:11:24.869 Linda Marsanico: I think God speaks through them to let you know what you can be doing next. They've said to you what they want to hear from you.

00:11:24.870 --> 00:11:32.640 Jacinta Yang: Yes, actually, when when I started doing the healing reiki

00:11:32.870 --> 00:11:37.970 Jacinta Yang: and I started to see a shift in in the client.

00:11:39.200 --> 00:11:46.650 Jacinta Yang: And of course I don't just do the healing energy. I talk to them. They are people to me.

00:11:46.800 --> 00:11:49.930 Jacinta Yang: because I don't take them as a transaction.

00:11:50.250 --> 00:11:54.160 Jacinta Yang: And so that led to healing journey.

00:11:55.030 --> 00:12:00.919 Jacinta Yang: And you know, regular. We do an update of what's going on, what's happening.

00:12:01.140 --> 00:12:09.660 Jacinta Yang: And then, next thing you know, during the lockdown, a lot of things was being virtual, and I didn't know how to do zoom.

00:12:09.840 --> 00:12:16.999 Jacinta Yang: So. The only thing I knew was Facebook. So you used Facebook messenger because people want to be

00:12:17.190 --> 00:12:19.070 Jacinta Yang: doing a video chat.

00:12:20.090 --> 00:12:27.150 Jacinta Yang: Then I start to write the healing journey program, basically to mentor other empaths.

00:12:28.290 --> 00:12:32.040 Jacinta Yang: And what I found that actually helped everybody.

00:12:32.270 --> 00:12:42.640 Jacinta Yang: So you can see the healing journey got aside and the healing journey program was born. I wrote the 12th Module for the healing journey program.

00:12:43.040 --> 00:12:49.720 Jacinta Yang: And since then I've seen amazing transformation in people's lives and

00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:53.489 Linda Marsanico: Awesome. That's awesome work, Jacinta.

00:12:53.490 --> 00:12:54.480 Jacinta Yang: Thank you.

00:12:55.990 --> 00:12:58.498 Jacinta Yang: So that led me to

00:12:59.860 --> 00:13:08.340 Jacinta Yang: Think of where my gift is needed and been working with some

00:13:09.211 --> 00:13:12.759 Jacinta Yang: men in my healing journey program.

00:13:12.970 --> 00:13:16.289 Jacinta Yang: and I was told there's not too many

00:13:16.440 --> 00:13:20.990 Jacinta Yang: support out there for mental wellness, for men.

00:13:21.470 --> 00:13:24.879 Linda Marsanico: This is so true in this country as well as Canada.

00:13:24.880 --> 00:13:26.800 Jacinta Yang: Yeah. So that

00:13:26.930 --> 00:13:37.580 Jacinta Yang: that led me to decide to do that. And that's what my show is going to be about. We need the calm. You know. Men like to keep everything calm on the outside

00:13:38.260 --> 00:13:40.889 Jacinta Yang: underneath. They're going through a lot.

00:13:41.130 --> 00:13:45.960 Jacinta Yang: So I'm hoping to create a safe space for men

00:13:46.470 --> 00:13:49.510 Jacinta Yang: to be able to seek help.

00:13:49.900 --> 00:13:54.329 Jacinta Yang: And recently I was speaking to a couple gentlemen I met

00:13:54.670 --> 00:14:00.349 Jacinta Yang: at a golf course, and we talked about what I'm doing and what I did.

00:14:00.910 --> 00:14:04.449 Jacinta Yang: and one of them said, You know it's so easy to talk to you.

00:14:04.660 --> 00:14:07.849 Jacinta Yang: and what I like about talking with you is that

00:14:08.270 --> 00:14:10.240 Jacinta Yang: you know you're calm, and it

00:14:10.370 --> 00:14:18.060 Jacinta Yang: I feel safe talking to you. I feel there's no judgment, and it's easy to share.

00:14:20.190 --> 00:14:29.699 Linda Marsanico: we're going to take a break now. But when we come back listeners, I want to ask justin to more about this beneath the calm program from men.

00:14:31.110 --> 00:14:35.449 Linda Marsanico: So come back and join us. For this very informative conversation.

00:16:57.200 --> 00:17:10.850 Linda Marsanico: Hello, everyone! Welcome back to the A. Train to Sedona broadcast. I'm Linda Marsanica with my guest, Jacinta Yang. So Jacinta, tell us more about beneath the calm and your program for men.

00:17:12.649 --> 00:17:13.309 Jacinta Yang: Oh.

00:17:13.489 --> 00:17:23.719 Jacinta Yang: yes, it's it was not easy coming up with that show. Because I wanted to be able to speak

00:17:24.249 --> 00:17:27.489 Jacinta Yang: the language that man can understand.

00:17:28.099 --> 00:17:33.283 Jacinta Yang: Oh, being a woman myself, of course we have a different

00:17:34.369 --> 00:17:39.059 Jacinta Yang: different way. We think differently. We see things as opposed to men.

00:17:39.619 --> 00:17:46.749 Jacinta Yang: but interestingly growing up and being a very independent person quite often

00:17:46.929 --> 00:17:50.879 Jacinta Yang: my friends told me that I'm not a typical woman. I'm more like a man.

00:17:51.329 --> 00:18:00.479 Jacinta Yang: Then I'm a woman, but it's still. I still know that. I don't have that same mindset

00:18:00.869 --> 00:18:06.739 Jacinta Yang: as men would, and in order to help men I need to understand how they think.

00:18:07.559 --> 00:18:12.569 Jacinta Yang: Oh, what language they need to speak

00:18:12.669 --> 00:18:16.909 Jacinta Yang: so interestingly like I said in our conversation earlier

00:18:17.129 --> 00:18:21.249 Jacinta Yang: marketing is a world that I did not

00:18:21.649 --> 00:18:26.489 Jacinta Yang: know existed as a floral designer, because I never needed

00:18:26.639 --> 00:18:28.919 Jacinta Yang: to have to market myself, because

00:18:29.669 --> 00:18:33.009 Jacinta Yang: people already knew how to find me or look for me.

00:18:33.829 --> 00:18:40.309 Jacinta Yang: and honestly, I didn't even want to market myself as a healer, but it is my clients

00:18:40.909 --> 00:18:46.989 Jacinta Yang: that feel very strongly that I need to be out there and let people find me

00:18:48.069 --> 00:18:53.269 Jacinta Yang: so much so that they she created the website. And

00:18:53.789 --> 00:18:56.399 Jacinta Yang: still I didn't know how to work the website.

00:18:58.683 --> 00:19:02.389 Jacinta Yang: I'm really an introvert, and

00:19:02.499 --> 00:19:09.469 Jacinta Yang: I actually like to be hidden in my loop egg cocoon.

00:19:09.739 --> 00:19:14.869 Jacinta Yang: But if I want to help people I cannot be in that little cave.

00:19:15.039 --> 00:19:20.259 Jacinta Yang: and and it's not about me. I need to come out of my comfort zone.

00:19:21.110 --> 00:19:21.440 Linda Marsanico: Yes.

00:19:21.440 --> 00:19:25.890 Jacinta Yang: Be able to do what I need to do what I meant to do.

00:19:26.820 --> 00:19:31.090 Jacinta Yang: I feel I guess my my

00:19:32.260 --> 00:19:37.590 Jacinta Yang: journey in life is to really be out there and help people.

00:19:38.690 --> 00:19:42.110 Jacinta Yang: So it was.

00:19:42.750 --> 00:19:49.729 Jacinta Yang: there was a lot of you know, discussion between one, my mentor, and who's helping with with the marketing, is it?

00:19:49.990 --> 00:19:55.509 Jacinta Yang: I want it to be a name so that it's it. Speak to everybody

00:19:56.600 --> 00:20:01.990 Jacinta Yang: because there are women like myself that also keep things quiet.

00:20:03.050 --> 00:20:06.869 Jacinta Yang: And I'm also learning through doing this

00:20:06.990 --> 00:20:13.050 Jacinta Yang: work teaching. I'm I'm learning to take my own advice as well.

00:20:14.580 --> 00:20:25.780 Jacinta Yang: So that's how this show came into being in a

00:20:26.950 --> 00:20:29.670 Jacinta Yang: ask Sam to help me with

00:20:31.680 --> 00:20:37.870 Jacinta Yang: to get on this show, and maybe that can help people find me.

00:20:39.590 --> 00:20:42.509 Linda Marsanico: Will there be a few women involved.

00:20:42.510 --> 00:20:42.870 Jacinta Yang: Yes.

00:20:42.870 --> 00:20:46.299 Linda Marsanico: So it'd be men and women, but more focused on men.

00:20:46.430 --> 00:20:48.809 Jacinta Yang: Yeah. Oh, at least I would say

00:20:49.090 --> 00:20:53.210 Jacinta Yang: so. The men can feel that they have somewhere

00:20:53.410 --> 00:21:00.270 Jacinta Yang: or someone to go to. So I I cannot say entirely. The focus is on men.

00:21:00.720 --> 00:21:05.789 Jacinta Yang: Because I guess I the reason we say I like to focus on men is because women

00:21:06.520 --> 00:21:12.729 Jacinta Yang: you know, are generally willing to search, seek for help.

00:21:13.200 --> 00:21:13.970 Linda Marsanico: Yes.

00:21:14.330 --> 00:21:18.460 Jacinta Yang: So. But then I don't want to isolate the women, because.

00:21:18.580 --> 00:21:21.340 Jacinta Yang: you know, I just want it to be for everyone

00:21:22.160 --> 00:21:29.230 Jacinta Yang: but a place that at least men can feel they can reach out to.

00:21:29.880 --> 00:21:33.599 Jacinta Yang: or they feel safe. They feel not judged

00:21:34.120 --> 00:21:36.620 Jacinta Yang: because they are human, too, just like us.

00:21:36.810 --> 00:21:43.280 Jacinta Yang: They feel just as much as we do. They carry a burden more than we do.

00:21:43.390 --> 00:21:48.040 Jacinta Yang: But then there's also many of us women that

00:21:48.330 --> 00:21:50.660 Jacinta Yang: plays the same role as men does.

00:21:51.890 --> 00:21:56.610 Jacinta Yang: and so they also need to have a safe place

00:21:57.170 --> 00:22:00.729 Jacinta Yang: to go to, where they're not going to feel judged as well.

00:22:01.370 --> 00:22:02.230 Jacinta Yang: So.

00:22:03.290 --> 00:22:15.529 Linda Marsanico: So on your show. Will you have conversations with sometimes with men, sometimes with women, about feelings and their experiences in life, and how to work them through.

00:22:16.120 --> 00:22:21.350 Jacinta Yang: Yes, I I hope that's the plan, as you know. I this is

00:22:21.490 --> 00:22:34.930 Jacinta Yang: very new for me coming on live show, and I guess I have to just trust my guide to help me guide through what need to be shared.

00:22:36.190 --> 00:22:39.669 Jacinta Yang: and I feel that I'll be led

00:22:40.270 --> 00:22:42.160 Jacinta Yang: to where I need to go.

00:22:42.650 --> 00:22:50.539 Linda Marsanico: But you're being challenged to offer your gifts. And you're learning such skills on the route. To all of this.

00:22:50.730 --> 00:23:00.110 Jacinta Yang: Yes, I've learned a lot along the way I have to say and also what I believe is.

00:23:01.860 --> 00:23:07.200 Jacinta Yang: I have to walk the talk, and

00:23:08.240 --> 00:23:14.250 Jacinta Yang: My client said, No, Jacinta, you do walk the talk. Another client said, No, you walk before you talk.

00:23:14.510 --> 00:23:18.560 Jacinta Yang: but I know I'm learning that I want to walk the talk.

00:23:19.040 --> 00:23:22.970 Linda Marsanico: I have the same experience. I find myself sharing

00:23:23.160 --> 00:23:33.019 Linda Marsanico: ideas with clients, and I remind myself to utilize the same bits of wisdom that I'm sharing. It's so essential for us to do that.

00:23:33.900 --> 00:23:39.530 Linda Marsanico: I want to ask you, how do you help people reconnect with their true selves?

00:23:40.310 --> 00:23:47.059 Jacinta Yang: How? Well, actually, 1st of all, it's try to help them

00:23:47.170 --> 00:23:52.810 Jacinta Yang: unload what is on the surface that is bothering them.

00:23:53.050 --> 00:23:57.280 Jacinta Yang: So when we start the healing journey program. It's like

00:23:58.780 --> 00:24:03.660 Jacinta Yang: they're coming with a large suitcase filled with stuff.

00:24:04.530 --> 00:24:07.390 Jacinta Yang: So I help them find the courage to open it.

00:24:08.200 --> 00:24:11.669 Jacinta Yang: and then take one little thing at a time and examined.

00:24:12.210 --> 00:24:16.980 Jacinta Yang: Is this good for me. Is this what I need? If not, let's take it out.

00:24:17.760 --> 00:24:21.931 Jacinta Yang: So you know, eventually, once you

00:24:22.690 --> 00:24:27.759 Jacinta Yang: release everything that doesn't serve you and doesn't help you.

00:24:28.020 --> 00:24:33.720 Jacinta Yang: and then this room. So you know, there's room to find you.

00:24:34.550 --> 00:24:45.469 Jacinta Yang: and it's a process, and I have to admit there's a lot of you have to go through a lot of tears. I go through a lot of tears with them, too. So.

00:24:45.840 --> 00:24:46.715 Jacinta Yang: and

00:24:48.300 --> 00:24:51.370 Jacinta Yang: Those who are really willing to work on their

00:24:51.710 --> 00:24:57.779 Jacinta Yang: personal growth and willing to really work on the healing journey.

00:24:58.140 --> 00:25:05.800 Jacinta Yang: They do find that they're feeling lighter and happier, and also not a lot

00:25:06.340 --> 00:25:14.610 Jacinta Yang: wouldn't bother them because you found yourself. And if anybody says something that is negative.

00:25:14.890 --> 00:25:17.390 Jacinta Yang: they able to know Okay, you know what.

00:25:17.680 --> 00:25:22.000 Jacinta Yang: That's not me, that it shouldn't affect me, you know. Sometimes

00:25:22.140 --> 00:25:28.530 Jacinta Yang: people can say something to you, and right away you'll start. I wonder if that is the true

00:25:28.790 --> 00:25:34.250 Jacinta Yang: or not. And then you start, you get into the rabbit hole of, you know.

00:25:34.400 --> 00:25:44.279 Jacinta Yang: thinking, I wonder what they're saying is true about me, and what's wrong with me. But when you really go through, understand? Because I I do get my client

00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:47.410 Jacinta Yang: write a list of things

00:25:47.960 --> 00:26:04.330 Jacinta Yang: they know about themselves that they liked or things they didn't like, and then we'll examine each of them, especially the list of what they don't like about themselves. Why is it that they don't like about themselves, those lists and

00:26:04.750 --> 00:26:11.369 Jacinta Yang: the things that they don't like about themselves. I try to show them there is a positive side to that

00:26:11.980 --> 00:26:17.090 Jacinta Yang: trait that they need to accept and embrace

00:26:18.000 --> 00:26:23.299 Jacinta Yang: right? So when you can accept everything about yourself, the things you love you don't like.

00:26:23.760 --> 00:26:28.150 Jacinta Yang: and then, you know, it's very hard for anybody to put you down after that.

00:26:28.900 --> 00:26:36.569 Linda Marsanico: The triggers are less powerful, and I remember for myself, going through teasing out what

00:26:36.720 --> 00:27:05.069 Linda Marsanico: I internalize from bureaucracies and groups and parents, and society was a very emotional and challenging process. But the prize that awaits is amazing because we're really letting go of what is not us. It's sort of leeched on to us or leeched into us and let it go. And we're enlivened, and our energy is brighter and lighter, and we feel a sense of freedom.

00:27:05.290 --> 00:27:05.830 Jacinta Yang: Yes.

00:27:05.830 --> 00:27:07.120 Linda Marsanico: Freedom to be us.

00:27:07.330 --> 00:27:12.865 Jacinta Yang: Yes, because we can be our own worst enemy, right?

00:27:13.420 --> 00:27:21.729 Jacinta Yang: So if we can free ourselves from making us ourselves feel bad, that's 1 step at least.

00:27:23.280 --> 00:27:29.309 Linda Marsanico: To be kind and to be our own friend. Now it is time for us to take another break.

00:27:30.050 --> 00:27:41.100 Linda Marsanico: and I'm going to ask you to share a transformative story from your healing practice when we come back, Jacinta. So listeners do join in.

00:29:52.140 --> 00:30:01.169 Linda Marsanico: Hello, everyone! Welcome back to the A. Train to Sedona broadcast. I'm Linda Marcannico with my guest, Jacinta Yang

00:30:01.460 --> 00:30:08.890 Linda Marsanico: Jacinta. Can you share a transformative story from your healing practice that has stayed with you.

00:30:10.760 --> 00:30:17.870 Jacinta Yang: Well, where do I begin? I I do. When, before I did the program, oh.

00:30:18.150 --> 00:30:20.779 Jacinta Yang: I started seeing the transformation. And

00:30:21.150 --> 00:30:28.859 Jacinta Yang: when I started the program. I actually started to have my client write their self-assessment

00:30:29.840 --> 00:30:36.869 Jacinta Yang: where they're at in my book, my spiritual journey, life as an empath that time I haven't started the

00:30:37.030 --> 00:30:49.679 Jacinta Yang: the program yet. So I actually did get my client write her story of her transformation, her experience of her journey, and she shared it, and it's in my book.

00:30:49.930 --> 00:31:07.720 Jacinta Yang: And the second, and then second testimonial from another client. In let your heart speak. Truth lies within. So this is a self-assessment, you know, over period. I get them to write a self-assessment from different period where they

00:31:07.950 --> 00:31:13.239 Jacinta Yang: they have, how much they've learned, how much they have grown, how it health has helped them.

00:31:13.490 --> 00:31:20.020 Jacinta Yang: So when I wrote my book, let your heart speak truth lies within. I went through the self-assessment.

00:31:20.270 --> 00:31:25.870 Jacinta Yang: and I found one assessment where actually, my client

00:31:26.080 --> 00:31:30.410 Jacinta Yang: in her assessment, she covered almost everything I wrote in my book.

00:31:31.450 --> 00:31:39.246 Jacinta Yang: So I'm going to let you guys search those. But currently I I'm working with a client

00:31:39.790 --> 00:31:46.369 Jacinta Yang: a gentleman that came to me in December, and he

00:31:46.700 --> 00:31:50.130 Jacinta Yang: had told me had gone to a psychotherapist.

00:31:50.350 --> 00:31:59.829 Jacinta Yang: Go over 6 months, and he just found that he wasn't getting anywhere. So he went online looking for

00:32:00.100 --> 00:32:07.850 Jacinta Yang: healers to help him, and he found me. And then we had a initial consult.

00:32:08.070 --> 00:32:17.239 Jacinta Yang: So I said, Okay, I said, I can only take you as a client as long as you're willing to do the work that I'm going to give you.

00:32:17.740 --> 00:32:26.119 Jacinta Yang: and that's only I can help you. So I explained to him how the program worked, what work needed to do because

00:32:26.610 --> 00:32:28.899 Jacinta Yang: I can do the work, but

00:32:29.500 --> 00:32:37.780 Jacinta Yang: it's become. It's more helpful for the client if they're willing to work on their own healing journey.

00:32:38.300 --> 00:32:45.269 Jacinta Yang: And I think, after 3 sessions he had told me. He's already feeling a big difference.

00:32:46.105 --> 00:32:48.429 Jacinta Yang: With what he's going through.

00:32:48.600 --> 00:32:52.149 Jacinta Yang: and his girlfriend told him that he should stay with me

00:32:52.460 --> 00:33:00.039 Jacinta Yang: and I'm hoping to invite him to be a guest as well in one of my show

00:33:00.330 --> 00:33:05.249 Jacinta Yang: and and let him share his transformation. How about that?

00:33:06.330 --> 00:33:12.939 Linda Marsanico: That sounds delightful that he's willing to share this with the public, with your listeners.

00:33:13.170 --> 00:33:19.720 Jacinta Yang: Yes, I did explain to him about how him, being a man

00:33:20.100 --> 00:33:26.610 Jacinta Yang: doing his journey that can help encourage other men to not feel

00:33:27.288 --> 00:33:32.200 Jacinta Yang: ashamed or embarrassed to seek help, so.

00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:35.810 Linda Marsanico: You know it's wonderful and fresh

00:33:36.010 --> 00:33:52.420 Linda Marsanico: that men will come on your show, share their story and then inspire others. Other men and women, perhaps, but we're really looking at men right now to inspire other men, to look within and and to

00:33:52.600 --> 00:33:53.250 Linda Marsanico: heal them.

00:33:54.330 --> 00:34:03.403 Jacinta Yang: And you know they're human, too, just because they're men doesn't mean they have to be the strong one or the provider, or all that you know.

00:34:03.880 --> 00:34:07.170 Jacinta Yang: how do you say social expectation.

00:34:07.390 --> 00:34:07.990 Linda Marsanico: Yes, it's.

00:34:07.990 --> 00:34:08.440 Jacinta Yang: Right now.

00:34:08.449 --> 00:34:19.709 Linda Marsanico: Strong in a lot of the men that I've worked with that they have to perform. These are American men. I don't know how different it might be in Canada, but the need to perform and

00:34:19.739 --> 00:34:47.649 Linda Marsanico: to be strong. But and I say, crying helps us to remain strong. It allows us to know what we're feeling. I remember years ago Edwin Muskie was running for President in the United States, and he cried, and he could not be elected. He was taken out of the race, and some years later Bill Clinton! Smile. Rather! He cried, and he was ushered in. It was just a matter of years before

00:34:48.299 --> 00:34:51.589 Linda Marsanico: men could actually cry on camera, political men.

00:34:51.590 --> 00:34:58.400 Jacinta Yang: I think there's certain stigma they feel. That is, you know, towards that. So I'm hoping

00:34:58.570 --> 00:35:02.190 Jacinta Yang: that I like to try to bring about a change.

00:35:03.270 --> 00:35:11.920 Linda Marsanico: That's what we're here for, Jaccenta to create change, to offer innovative ways

00:35:12.370 --> 00:35:20.549 Linda Marsanico: for people to heal. And you and I have this love and compassion in in common, because when I started my website

00:35:20.920 --> 00:35:44.119 Linda Marsanico: in 2013, I knew it was going to be spiritual. But I didn't know from what perspective. And it took me about 6 months to actually realize that it would be love about love and compassion, because it takes a lot of work to get there, and if you're loving and compassionate, you're spiritual, whether you know it or not. I remember somebody telling me that his person in his life

00:35:44.270 --> 00:35:48.839 Linda Marsanico: didn't believe in God, but was loving and compassionate. Well, that's a spiritual person.

00:35:49.490 --> 00:35:58.439 Jacinta Yang: Yeah, that's that's what spiritually spirituality is all about love and compassion

00:35:58.830 --> 00:36:04.810 Jacinta Yang: and kindness. And, you know, hold everybody when they need to be held

00:36:05.840 --> 00:36:09.880 Jacinta Yang: and have space safe space for them, not judge.

00:36:10.990 --> 00:36:18.550 Jacinta Yang: judge them for whatever they're going through, because we never know what a person is really going through. Sometimes, you know.

00:36:18.980 --> 00:36:23.169 Jacinta Yang: there are people that could be lashing out, or whatever

00:36:23.470 --> 00:36:33.779 Jacinta Yang: may not be very positive. But the thing is, instead of thinking, judging them for being the way they are. And we need to think that maybe they're going through something

00:36:33.890 --> 00:36:38.159 Jacinta Yang: that yet they acting out without even realizing it.

00:36:38.610 --> 00:36:45.339 Jacinta Yang: So we just have to be able to try to put ourselves into somebody's shoe

00:36:45.970 --> 00:36:49.260 Jacinta Yang: to feel and know that. Okay, you know

00:36:49.820 --> 00:36:52.660 Jacinta Yang: that there is always a reason

00:36:52.890 --> 00:36:56.320 Jacinta Yang: why people behave the way they do.

00:36:56.530 --> 00:37:05.159 Jacinta Yang: It's not necessary. That's how they want to behave, you know. Sometimes when you're going through rough period, and you can feel frustrated, you feel angry.

00:37:05.900 --> 00:37:07.640 Jacinta Yang: Those things? And

00:37:07.830 --> 00:37:13.539 Jacinta Yang: whether did they actually wanted to lash out? Do they want it to be angry? I don't think so.

00:37:15.720 --> 00:37:16.700 Jacinta Yang: That's so.

00:37:16.700 --> 00:37:21.780 Linda Marsanico: Loving kindness allow. When I'm looking at the world with love.

00:37:22.640 --> 00:37:27.060 Linda Marsanico: I think loving things, and I'm giving people the benefit of the doubt

00:37:27.350 --> 00:37:29.980 Linda Marsanico: and sharing loving energy rather than

00:37:30.230 --> 00:37:42.330 Linda Marsanico: angry energy, choosing love over fear. Now we have a few minutes before we complete our show, and I want to ask you to tell our listeners how they can find you.

00:37:43.600 --> 00:37:55.820 Jacinta Yang: I have a website called jacinthealingarts.com, and my Youtube channel, Jacinta Healing Arts, and on Linkedin, oh.

00:37:56.120 --> 00:37:58.400 Jacinta Yang: Instagram and Facebook.

00:37:58.610 --> 00:38:03.760 Jacinta Yang: And my spotify channel is called self-aware soul.

00:38:04.310 --> 00:38:08.559 Jacinta Yang: So I believe, being self-aware can really help us

00:38:09.260 --> 00:38:12.940 Jacinta Yang: to go forward in a life. The way we want to.

00:38:14.680 --> 00:38:20.210 Linda Marsanico: Yes, being self aware, is really the route to love and compassion.

00:38:20.420 --> 00:38:23.951 Jacinta Yang: Yes, and I guess. My

00:38:24.920 --> 00:38:31.569 Jacinta Yang: big thing. I I believe in unconditional love, and I have

00:38:31.740 --> 00:38:35.129 Jacinta Yang: people telling me I don't know how you do it.

00:38:35.300 --> 00:38:36.700 Jacinta Yang: I've never.

00:38:36.940 --> 00:38:40.710 Jacinta Yang: I've never seen anyone that just

00:38:41.540 --> 00:38:45.050 Jacinta Yang: filled with love. I I've not grown

00:38:45.570 --> 00:38:48.920 Jacinta Yang: with with that in my life.

00:38:49.230 --> 00:38:55.049 Jacinta Yang: and I'm not sure how that works, I said, well, hang out with me long enough. I'll teach you.

00:38:55.600 --> 00:39:01.449 Linda Marsanico: What a lovely invitation, Jacinta, I want to say to the listeners that next time

00:39:01.570 --> 00:39:08.989 Linda Marsanico: my guest will be Beth Mcpherson, who has a decluttering and organizing business in England

00:39:09.270 --> 00:39:13.840 Linda Marsanico: to shift people's energy. So to our international people.

00:39:14.020 --> 00:39:20.589 Linda Marsanico: because we broadcast in over a hundred countries, and that includes the rest of the world. Listen! In

00:39:20.850 --> 00:39:34.799 Linda Marsanico: Jacinta. It was lovely to meet with you, to hear what you have to offer such so much love and so much compassion, and that really links us when I think of love and compassion and

00:39:35.050 --> 00:39:40.249 Linda Marsanico: the work to get there. And as you were mentioning clients come to you.

00:39:40.600 --> 00:39:44.150 Linda Marsanico: they need to do the work. We all need to do the work.

00:39:44.380 --> 00:39:47.089 Linda Marsanico: and once we make a commitment to doing that.

00:39:47.330 --> 00:39:50.390 Linda Marsanico: we're on the path to to love and compassion.

00:39:51.740 --> 00:39:53.709 Jacinta Yang: Thank you. Thank you for having me.

00:39:53.820 --> 00:39:58.920 Linda Marsanico: It's been lovely. Thank you so much, and we'll see you next time. Listeners.

00:39:59.190 --> 00:40:00.000 Jacinta Yang: Okay.

00:40:00.560 --> 00:40:01.160 Jacinta Yang: Bye. Now.

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