[NEW EPISODE] Affirm Your Transformation

WHAT WILL THE AUDIENCE LEARN?

Join Sam and Thomas as they discuss the importance of Self-Love, especially during this time of great change!

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EPISODE SUMMARY:

This week, on The Conscious Consultant Hour, Sam welcomes Founder and Coach, Thomas Ng. 

Thomas is the Founder of the Self-Love apparel brand, Affirm Your Transformation, and a Spiritual Self-Love Coach.

He has spent years on his own Journey in Spirituality, Personal Development, Self-Love, Human Dynamics, Psychology & Relationships, where Thomas formed a Solid Foundation from which he now helps others achieve the Peace, Stability, Self-Love, Healing & Progress that so many are seeking.

www.AffirmYourTransformation.com 

Tune in for this enlightening conversation at TalkRadio.nyc

Show Notes

Segment  1

Sam reads a section from his book Everyday Awakening entitled Because We Are Imperfect Our Communication is Imperfect. It talks about communication and how it is okay that we don’t all agree on everything. Sam suggests we try to see past each other’s differences and make an effort to try to understand them. He admits that conflict can be unavoidable at times, but more often than not, communication could be more transparent and open for each party. Sam asks his listeners if there is anyone they could be more present with or bring more patience and vulnerability to the conversation. You can find a copy of Sam’s book at EverydayAwakeningBook.com

Segment 2

Sam introduces his guest Thomas Ng, the founder of the self-love apparel brand Affirm Your Transformation and a spiritual self-love coach. Thomas shared that there was a time he was feeling incomplete, so he decided to broaden his spirituality. When his journey began, Thomas visited different churches until he found Centers for Spiritual Living. That’s where he discovered his spiritual connection and has been with them since. Sam asks Thomas what about Centers for Spiritual Living made him want to stay and learn more. Sam and Thomas discuss how we have the power to change our state of being by changing how we look at things. Thomas talks about his influences from the book A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle.

Segment 3

Sam and Thomas discuss how self-love became Thomas’ passion. Thomas shares how it all stemmed from his lack of self-love for himself. He says often, children are not taught how to love themselves. He says we tend to search for a certain kind of love externally when it can only be generated from within. Sam asks what makes it challenging to love ourselves. Thomas believes it comes from our conditioning and relationship with ourselves. He explains Affirmation and the benefits from them.

Segment 4

Sam asks Thomas what it was like starting his own business and what surprises came along the journey. Thomas shares the challenges he struggled with in his company, starting from the ground up. He gives some advice for listeners who are thinking about going into entrepreneurship. Sam asks Thomas what some challenges were with his coaching. Towards the end of the segment, Thomas shares his eight affirmations. You can learn more about Thomas Ng at Affirm you Transmation on all major social media platforms.

Transcript

00:00:27.550 --> 00:00:57.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Good afternoon. Good morning! Good evening, Depending where you're listening to us and around the world. Welcome to this week's episode of the conscious consultant hour. I am very, very pleased that you are all here with me today. Got a wonderful show in store for you today One, I think. Ah, to really enjoy one that I think will support us all. Um, I just want to say a big welcome to all the listeners on

00:00:57.540 --> 00:01:20.279 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: me t out in California. I'm very happy to have our new relationship of talk radio and Nyc with Kme. T. I'm. California, and it's really a pleasure. Let me know that that you're listening feel free to reach out to me. You can always reach me at Sam, at the conscious consultant. Com

00:01:20.290 --> 00:01:38.809 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: all right. So before I introduce my guests, of course. Let's ah start off with a little section from my book Everyday Awakening, which, of course, you can get at Everyday Awakening Book dot com, and today it's a very apropos section

00:01:38.820 --> 00:01:43.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: uh for the topic we're going to be talking about today, and it's entitled

00:01:43.520 --> 00:01:49.299 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because we are imperfect. Our communication is imperfect,

00:01:49.690 --> 00:02:06.509 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: communication is inherently imperfect. The words we use, and even how we say them are always open to interpretation as human beings. We make mistakes all the time about what was meant, or even what was said.

00:02:06.600 --> 00:02:13.479 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Therefore, to expect things to go perfectly all the time is unrealistic.

00:02:13.630 --> 00:02:23.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We commit to staying present to a conversation, we can come to a mutual understanding. We can clarify and correct.

00:02:23.730 --> 00:02:28.760 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can see where the perception is different from our intention,

00:02:28.870 --> 00:02:57.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and when we can add further communication to, and we can add further communication to improve the understanding. The one thing we cannot afford to do is decrease. The amount of communication we are having. This may be uncomfortable at times. It may take extra effort to stay present at times, but we really must do it if we value clarity and mutual understanding.

00:02:58.430 --> 00:03:07.389 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we decide to withdraw and decrease or stop our communication. That's when real trouble begins.

00:03:07.660 --> 00:03:15.179 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Should we choose to stop communicating, we can be blocked to understanding what is really going on.

00:03:15.400 --> 00:03:23.019 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we close up and stop interacting with another person, then nothing between us can move forward.

00:03:23.810 --> 00:03:28.399 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It does not matter who we think is right or wrong.

00:03:28.830 --> 00:03:32.910 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It does not matter who was justified or not.

00:03:33.050 --> 00:03:43.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The conversation and the possibilities all, and the moment we decide that it is no longer worth communicating.

00:03:43.600 --> 00:03:47.150 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That's how most relationships end the

00:03:47.260 --> 00:03:51.850 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: without communication there can be no relationship.

00:03:52.830 --> 00:03:59.889 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can do the difficult work of staying open, of being present to the conversation,

00:03:59.900 --> 00:04:09.969 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: regardless of how we feel about the other person. Then something can move. Then there is at least some hope.

00:04:10.220 --> 00:04:17.920 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Then we can change the outcome and work through whatever it was that was bothering us.

00:04:18.709 --> 00:04:19.990 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can't do

00:04:20.000 --> 00:04:24.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: any of that If we clam up and go away.

00:04:24.720 --> 00:04:33.870 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The amazing thing is that when we stay present and continue to communicate, most disagreements can be worked out

00:04:34.790 --> 00:04:42.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: most of the time, we will find out that we misunderstood what was said or meant,

00:04:42.640 --> 00:04:43.979 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: or they will.

00:04:44.700 --> 00:04:59.990 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The important thing is not who was right or wrong. The important thing is that we stuck around to talk it through until either there was some resolution or there was a mutual agreement about an ending.

00:05:00.140 --> 00:05:08.939 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Either way. Everyone involved felt better, knowing that they had done everything they could to work it out.

00:05:09.960 --> 00:05:13.399 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Sometimes we have to walk away,

00:05:13.830 --> 00:05:18.210 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: but many times we just have to stay present

00:05:18.390 --> 00:05:20.920 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and keep talking.

00:05:22.070 --> 00:05:29.489 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Can you see where you stopped communicating too soon? Is there a conversation that you need to reopen?

00:05:29.670 --> 00:05:30.910 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So I

00:05:31.480 --> 00:05:38.960 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: again? This is kind of continuing the theme. We started last week on communication because I'm. In the fifth section of my book.

00:05:39.460 --> 00:05:55.879 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But this is something I wrote a long time ago, and it's so funny because I felt like when I was I was going through which blog posts to put into my book, and which ones to include like this one was so important to include, especially in today's world.

00:05:56.960 --> 00:06:00.379 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I have heard of so many friends that

00:06:00.580 --> 00:06:02.720 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: so many people

00:06:03.030 --> 00:06:06.519 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: who used to have wonderful relationships

00:06:06.840 --> 00:06:20.429 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that all because of one miscommunication, one belief, maybe, who they voted for an election they were like, I can't talk to this person anymore. And I'm like, Why not?

00:06:21.500 --> 00:06:25.490 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know we don't all have to agree.

00:06:26.750 --> 00:06:33.179 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Maybe if we just kept talking to each other a little bit more, maybe if we just,

00:06:33.320 --> 00:06:38.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know, understood why somebody made the choices they made,

00:06:38.470 --> 00:06:51.939 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and we expressed how that made us feel. And we just, you know, really allowed ourselves to be present and vulnerable to the situation, that then we could find that common ground.

00:06:53.720 --> 00:07:03.159 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But i'm pretty sure almost all my listeners will agree with me like the world is more divided today than I have ever seen it in my lifetime.

00:07:04.960 --> 00:07:13.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And to me that means we're not really communicating with each other. We're not sitting down, and having a heart-to-heart talk with each other

00:07:17.540 --> 00:07:18.650 A.

00:07:19.170 --> 00:07:28.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And sometimes I mean look, sometimes there's just no getting through to the other person. I I admit it, but that doesn't mean we can't make an effort to understand them.

00:07:30.550 --> 00:07:35.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: There are many conflicts i'm sure that could be avoided

00:07:35.390 --> 00:07:39.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: if there was just more communication.

00:07:41.100 --> 00:07:46.479 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Sometimes conflict is inevitable. Sometimes we we can't avoid it,

00:07:49.520 --> 00:08:03.339 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: but I have a sneaking suspicion that a lot more of it could be avoided than is currently avoided because we do not make the effort to stay present with the conversation,

00:08:05.540 --> 00:08:07.539 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and I know for myself,

00:08:07.810 --> 00:08:16.309 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I have. I definitely had problems in the past due to myself, not being willing to continue to communicate

00:08:16.580 --> 00:08:24.560 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: of just feeling tired and fed up, and it's like they're never going to get it. They're never going to understand. Why am I wasting my time?

00:08:26.160 --> 00:08:39.519 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But like that's the time to be the most vulnerable. That's the time to be the most present. That's the time to really kick it into high gear, and say we have to have another conversation

00:08:40.360 --> 00:08:44.400 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: because it's when we're the most frustrated

00:08:44.450 --> 00:08:52.459 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that a breakthrough is right around the corner, and maybe that's all it would take is just one more conversation

00:09:06.610 --> 00:09:09.170 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to white. I don't know what you're going through.

00:09:13.690 --> 00:09:16.099 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: There's some aspect

00:09:17.180 --> 00:09:20.100 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: in life. There's some person

00:09:20.790 --> 00:09:24.430 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that you can communicate with just a little bit more

00:09:25.580 --> 00:09:28.099 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to be just a little more present

00:09:28.810 --> 00:09:30.209 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to work with me.

00:09:30.220 --> 00:09:32.249 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Work through something

00:09:32.980 --> 00:09:34.580 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: just a little bit

00:09:35.170 --> 00:09:36.310 more,

00:09:37.450 --> 00:09:43.320 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: just with a little bit more time, a little bit more patience, a little bit more vulnerability.

00:09:43.970 --> 00:09:45.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It's not impossible.

00:09:48.950 --> 00:09:54.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Indeed I I really and truly believe in my heart of hearts

00:09:57.480 --> 00:09:58.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that

00:09:59.180 --> 00:10:05.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: there are very few situations. There are very few circumstances. There are some absolutely,

00:10:06.990 --> 00:10:09.669 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: but there are very few that

00:10:09.700 --> 00:10:17.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: if we just stay present to the conversation, if we just communicate a little bit more,

00:10:18.000 --> 00:10:19.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that's

00:10:19.220 --> 00:10:29.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we can actually work it out that whatever the problem is, could be resolved that we could actually find a way to truly

00:10:30.470 --> 00:10:34.789 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: resolve things and come to an understanding with the other person.

00:10:35.780 --> 00:10:46.639 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it doesn't matter the context. It doesn't matter. If it's a personal relationship, it's a business relationship. If it's on your job, if it's an intimate relationship, your partner, your family,

00:10:51.860 --> 00:10:54.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know what so

00:10:55.440 --> 00:11:00.030 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: much pain has been caused by misunderstandings.

00:11:01.620 --> 00:11:08.899 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Somebody remembering things one way or somebody doing something that gets interpreted

00:11:09.230 --> 00:11:12.660 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: a completely erroneous manner that

00:11:13.350 --> 00:11:22.389 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that if we just really checked in, and it's like, hey, why did you do that? That really felt like you were doing that for not a good reason, and this is how it made me feel.

00:11:22.890 --> 00:11:30.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I wonder how many times the other person would say, No, no, no, no, that's not what I meant at all. This was my intention behind it, and that's why I was doing this,

00:11:30.780 --> 00:11:32.719 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know. I just wonder.

00:11:32.820 --> 00:11:34.489 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And and I just

00:11:34.550 --> 00:11:37.959 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know. Think, just just look in your own life

00:11:38.510 --> 00:11:44.389 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and think about the relationships you have, and look at where there might be a little bit of tension there

00:11:45.910 --> 00:11:47.580 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and see if

00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:55.189 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: maybe that tension, Maybe there's some conversation that needs to be had there.

00:11:56.780 --> 00:12:00.140 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Maybe nothing gets fully resolved. But

00:12:01.440 --> 00:12:03.339 perhaps by

00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:07.390 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: just letting the other person know how you feel.

00:12:07.910 --> 00:12:13.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It will soften things a little bit, so things can be a little bit better between you.

00:12:15.710 --> 00:12:16.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So

00:12:16.800 --> 00:12:20.169 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: your mission this week. Should you choose to accept it,

00:12:21.490 --> 00:12:22.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: take a look

00:12:23.220 --> 00:12:26.660 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: at your relationships, take a look at your communication,

00:12:27.680 --> 00:12:30.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and say, Is there some

00:12:30.850 --> 00:12:34.729 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: conversation that you need to have this week that

00:12:35.120 --> 00:12:37.950 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: maybe you stopped having with someone.

00:12:38.580 --> 00:12:45.840 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Maybe you need to pick up the phone or send them an email and say, Hey, I'd really like to talk to you

00:12:46.860 --> 00:12:53.870 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: around our last conversation I felt that there were some things unsaid. Let's maybe talk a little bit more

00:12:55.010 --> 00:12:59.830 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: check in with them have that conversation, and then let me know next week you

00:13:00.290 --> 00:13:03.590 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: How did it go? Did anything get resolved?

00:13:03.730 --> 00:13:06.799 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Did it at least feel better on your end

00:13:08.070 --> 00:13:17.870 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: all right. So that's ah my section from my book. This section is called because we are imperfect. Our communication is imperfect, and that's from my book.

00:13:17.880 --> 00:13:44.490 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Everyday awakening. You are more powerful than you know, and you can always find that at Www. Dot everyday awakening book, dot com, and it takes you straight to the Amazon listing. But if you're like me, and you like to buy your books at Independent booksellers, just ask them to order it. We're in major book distributors, so anybody can get it for you so definitely. Check it out all right. It's time for us to take a little break.

00:13:45.080 --> 00:13:54.739 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So when we come back. I'm going to introduce our guests. A wonderful young man who I connected with a few months ago. I really think you're going to like him, So please stick around

00:13:54.950 --> 00:14:03.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: so everyone, please stay tuned. You're listening to the conscious consultant now awakening humanity, and we'll be right back in just a moment.

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00:16:20.250 --> 00:16:49.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and welcome back to the conscious console now weakening humanity. I see loyal listener, Paddy, checking in on the the livestream. Thank you, Patty. It's such a pleasure to have you on the live stream. Um, and thank you for sharing um. And if anybody does want to catch the videos, they're available on our Youtube Channel, which is Youtube, dot com slash things of see slash. Talking alternative alternative. Broadcasting is the name of the company that owns uh talk radio that I see.

00:16:49.800 --> 00:17:19.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Anyway, it is my pleasure to now introduce to you, founder and coach Thomas A. Thomas is the founder of self-love this the self-love of Harold Brand, a firm your transformation and he's also a spiritual self-love coach. He spent many years on his own journey and spirituality, personal development, self-love, human dynamics, psychology, and relationships, where Thomas formed a solid foundation which he now helps. Others achieve the peace, stability, self, love,

00:17:19.200 --> 00:17:25.359 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: healing, and progress that so many are seeking welcome to the conscious consultant hour. Thomas.

00:17:25.609 --> 00:17:28.749 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Thank you so much, Sam, grateful to be here,

00:17:29.030 --> 00:17:49.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and and I know you. You mentioned kind of off off air about the the section of my book today, and it was actually very apropos for what we're going to talk about today. Not planned. I did not. I do not cherry pick these. I'm just going straight through my book in order. It just ah tends to work out perfectly for the guests. So

00:17:49.720 --> 00:18:08.579 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: um ah, Thomas, so i'm just curious like what got you into this world of spirituality? Was there some incident? Was it just the way you were raised? Was there, or was there some like a moment that really like, flipped a switch in your mind and said, Oh, my God, I I really should start looking at this stuff.

00:18:09.130 --> 00:18:24.210 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Great question. So it was back in two thousand and thirteen. I was living life, and I felt like something was missing, and I really wanted to take the journey to deep in my spirituality.

00:18:24.220 --> 00:18:35.709 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So um! I jumped around different churches and actually led it into a a philosophy and organization called Centers for spiritual living.

00:18:35.840 --> 00:18:53.580 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: And that's when I felt it was really beating my soul and it. I've been with them ever since. So ah, okay, Yep. Center for spiritual living. I know there are branches of them here in New York City as well.

00:18:53.590 --> 00:19:02.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And And what was it about that particular organization? And when you got to it like made you feel like there's something here from me.

00:19:03.340 --> 00:19:06.649 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. Great question. Um,

00:19:06.690 --> 00:19:09.189 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: it's. It's in a sense. When

00:19:09.270 --> 00:19:11.679 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: when when I walked in

00:19:12.380 --> 00:19:13.910 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: his belt

00:19:14.090 --> 00:19:25.299 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: that it was the right place to be, I felt welcomed. I felt like the philosophy is speaking with my soul. It's connecting to it,

00:19:25.310 --> 00:19:32.610 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: and for those of you who are not aware, centers for spiritual living, is

00:19:33.240 --> 00:19:52.520 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: it? It teaches the philosophy called the Science of Mind, and it is in line with, like the law of attraction. It's manifestation is that you? We are all creators, and we are connected to the universe, source, energy. And

00:19:52.530 --> 00:20:00.090 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: through this connection we acknowledged that God is everywhere. God is all there is, and and I am one with God.

00:20:00.100 --> 00:20:16.289 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So you are always connected with the source you are co-creating with God, and that is so powerful. It is more powerful and resonant with me than any other religions that I have Babo with.

00:20:16.300 --> 00:20:35.659 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, you know It's an interesting sort of distinction that one of the things. Why, I consider myself spiritual and not religious, and and it's not true. One hundred percent of the time, but very often in religions you find that there's this, this sort of division between the Creator, God and the creative;

00:20:35.850 --> 00:20:37.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: whereas

00:20:37.800 --> 00:20:43.199 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: in this instance it's not that there's any separation. It's

00:20:43.740 --> 00:20:53.250 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: God and us. We are all the Creator and created. And and to me there's just something about that idea that

00:20:53.490 --> 00:21:06.049 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we're not separate from anything. We We are all a part of it that that just resonates with me as well, and that that's why I like to kind of look at things from a more.

00:21:06.060 --> 00:21:19.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I'll say spiritual with air, quotes point of view rather than a religious point of view. That's just myself. I completely respect people who that does resonate for them. Everyone has to find their own truth.

00:21:19.460 --> 00:21:34.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So once you sort of found this, and and you started studying with them like, How did that affect your life? How did you start showing up differently once you started being exposed to these teachings and these concepts

00:21:36.090 --> 00:21:42.359 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I feel like for a for a lack of better word. It killed me. I was.

00:21:42.370 --> 00:22:01.729 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I was unconscious before I was at the effect of the outside. I didn't always have great experiences because of what I've experienced out in the world. But now, with this teaching I learned, and i'm aware that

00:22:01.740 --> 00:22:18.539 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: i'm a co-creator I have the power to change my state of being by changing how I look at things. So now you study many other things, not not just stuff from from the center. Right?

00:22:19.110 --> 00:22:30.440 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. Yeah. So actually, I think what introduced me to this philosophy is the book called A New Earth

00:22:30.450 --> 00:22:46.719 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: like Holy, and it opened my eyes. It was like when I discovered it. It's like That's the best spiritual book that I've ever came across, and I start buying them and just giving them out.

00:22:47.120 --> 00:22:53.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, Ekartoli, he's definitely got something special about him.

00:22:53.530 --> 00:23:12.899 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so then you you started studying all kinds of stuff and and learning about. Ah, you know, psychology and relationships and and healing work. And when did you decide like this is going to be your life's path like like what made you say like

00:23:13.400 --> 00:23:19.339 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I just I got to dive in with both feed and like. This is what I want to make my life about. Now.

00:23:19.350 --> 00:23:21.590 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Umhm: Yeah. Great question.

00:23:22.020 --> 00:23:28.670 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I think it started when the pandemic started, and

00:23:28.680 --> 00:23:31.800 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: it was a difficult time for all of us.

00:23:31.950 --> 00:23:50.010 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: We have lost loved ones. We have seen people dying, and there's nothing that we could really do to stop it. So it really made me and many others really value our lives like. How do we choose to live Moving forward?

00:23:50.020 --> 00:24:06.540 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Do we just stay in the the path that we're in, perhaps working a corporate job to earn money to buy things to survive? Or is there more? Is there a greater purpose. You know It's It's a question that I ask myself.

00:24:06.550 --> 00:24:17.709 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: And then I ended up just um leaving my my corporate job last year, because I know that this is my my calling and my passion, my gift to the world.

00:24:17.720 --> 00:24:31.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Wow, yeah, it's interesting. You mentioned that the loss has kind of been on my mind a bit lately, because the the mailman who delivers the mail to my building just died of a heart attack.

00:24:31.210 --> 00:24:38.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: He was a young guy. He wasn't He was like sixty, two or something, and he was in great shape,

00:24:38.070 --> 00:24:58.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and he died, and he and the the doorman in my building was telling me that, like he was just talking about retirement, that, like the end of this year, or like, he was less than a year away from retirement, and he he had a heart attack while on route one day, not in my building in another building, and it's like,

00:24:59.200 --> 00:25:08.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know, not because of the pandemic, not because of vaccines or anything, but just his heart gave out, and it's so interesting like the more I talk to people,

00:25:08.870 --> 00:25:26.950 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It's like everybody who knows somebody that's I. I like to say, transitioned in the last couple of years. Whether it was because of the pandemic or not, because or whether it was directly, because or indirectly, because a lot of people are leaving. And so when we start

00:25:27.260 --> 00:25:36.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: really fully beginning to take in the loss that's around us, then we we do have to kind of come face to face with our own mortality. Don't we?

00:25:37.360 --> 00:25:39.020 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Absolutely

00:25:39.170 --> 00:25:55.530 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: yeah it's it's definitely a wake-up call, and I pray that your mailman loved his job and delivering joy and mail and packages, and I would invite our viewers and listeners that

00:25:55.540 --> 00:26:16.449 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: if you're not doing something that you actually absolutely love. Make time for it. You don't have to be like me, and just leave your job and jump directly to your passion when make time to nurture your soul and do your passion because we don't know how much time we have left. Every day is a gift.

00:26:17.230 --> 00:26:44.150 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, like it might be. Maybe you love music, but you don't have to be a professional musician, you know. Just pick up an instrument, learn to play, I mean he he. He was a hard worker, so the doorman told me that, like he got up early in the morning, and we deliver newspapers in the morning, and then he'd start his his mail route. But he was such a nice guy. He was always very pleasant, you know. Whenever I saw him he always had a smile on his face. You know just just one of those guys that that just made you feel like

00:26:44.160 --> 00:26:54.880 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know, he he just enjoyed his life. But yeah, it's sometimes things are so short, and we we tend to take things for granted.

00:26:56.680 --> 00:27:02.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I'm curious, and we just got a couple of minutes before we take a quick break

00:27:04.470 --> 00:27:06.689 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you'd left your corporate job

00:27:06.700 --> 00:27:19.479 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: when you left. Was it a scary decision to make, or was it by that time you were just like it, and had enough confidence to say like, No, this is it? I'm done with this. I'm going to do something I really love in life.

00:27:20.330 --> 00:27:25.629 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Great question a little bit of both, and what I did was that I had a plan.

00:27:25.660 --> 00:27:41.479 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I have a nine. I already wrote my resignation letter, so It was a decision that's already made. That's serving my soul. So I actually got down to it. It was scary, but it was what I needed to do.

00:27:41.900 --> 00:27:48.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Nice, nice, nice, very cool. Yeah. Having a plan like there's no need to do things

00:27:49.250 --> 00:28:09.030 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: irrationally, I'll say, or in an ungrounded manner. We can make dramatic changes, but we can be intelligent about it right? We can plan we can, we can, you know, save up some money before we make that leave, so we make sure we're not in a and put ourselves in a bad situation. So yeah, I I applaud you for that.

00:28:09.040 --> 00:28:18.209 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: All right. We're going to take a quick break when we come back. I want to talk about Why, you decided to focus a lot on self-love now,

00:28:18.220 --> 00:28:34.159 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and where this idea of an apparel. Brand kind of came out from your transformation, because that's an interesting sort of application of this stuff. And so i'm very curious like how you came to that. But we'll talk about that when we come back.

00:28:34.170 --> 00:28:34.990 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: All right.

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00:30:55.340 --> 00:31:01.080 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and welcome back to the conscious consultant, our weakening humanity. So, Thomas,

00:31:01.560 --> 00:31:08.860 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: you know it. Hasn't, been all that long ago. You left the corporate world to really focus on this journey of the

00:31:08.870 --> 00:31:35.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: personal and spiritual development. But you have a particular focus right now, don't you, and that's on self-love. And i'm. Curious. What is it about that one particular thing that really strikes such a chord in you like That's what you decide to focus on, because when you leap into this world there are many different aspects of it. There are many different things that people can focus on. I'm. Curious what it is about self-love that really

00:31:35.930 --> 00:31:39.939 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: lights you up so much that that's what you decided to focus on

00:31:40.290 --> 00:31:41.750 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: great questions. Then

00:31:41.900 --> 00:31:45.360 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I think with many of us, um

00:31:45.560 --> 00:31:54.319 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: subject matter, expertise, or what we choose to go into stem from a personal need.

00:31:54.330 --> 00:31:56.929 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So it's the same for my spell.

00:31:57.060 --> 00:32:10.750 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I needed some love for me. I needed to learn and build the foundation for self-a, for me and to be honest I I haven't always loved myself. It's like

00:32:10.870 --> 00:32:17.409 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I had a great upbringing. I love my parents, but oftentimes for many of us we

00:32:17.510 --> 00:32:21.540 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: we're not taught how to love ourselves.

00:32:21.550 --> 00:32:26.720 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I see that in so many people we seek love

00:32:26.760 --> 00:32:39.230 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: um from the external, from other people, to give us the love that we need. But we really need to generate it from within. So that's why i'm so passionate about it.

00:32:39.580 --> 00:32:51.229 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: This knowledge, This foundation helped me so much, and now I want to help the world and share, share the love, share the knowledge, let's spread the joy.

00:32:51.240 --> 00:33:04.149 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so, when you work with people to help them to cultivate self-love, what sort of are the challenges around that. What sort of makes it difficult for us to love ourselves?

00:33:04.430 --> 00:33:07.140 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Great question. Um,

00:33:07.720 --> 00:33:19.090 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I think it's our conditioning I think it is self-criticism. It's the way that our minds have

00:33:19.150 --> 00:33:37.699 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: have been wired from a very young age to adolescents to adult, and the more that we practice operating in a certain way. The more that we get stuck there, and we recreate our experience of not

00:33:37.710 --> 00:33:39.830 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: truly loving ourselves.

00:33:39.840 --> 00:33:42.519 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So it's really important to break that.

00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:46.389 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, it's kind of like as as children.

00:33:47.380 --> 00:34:05.459 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We look to our parents right for love or attention for food, you know, for everything, we're completely dependent on these two giant beings that are like our gods to us. And when we're little kids, and if there's any detection of

00:34:05.770 --> 00:34:13.830 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: disappointment, of anger, of any kind of contractive emotion. I'll call it

00:34:14.620 --> 00:34:16.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: right. We don't.

00:34:16.980 --> 00:34:33.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We don't usually have the cognition to say, Oh, Daddy's upset. I wonder why it's? Oh, I must have done something wrong, Right? We have this tendency to blame ourselves and and it and it's sort of like when we,

00:34:34.480 --> 00:34:43.429 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Whenever something goes wrong in our life we are like. Oh, you know we can. Why did this happen to me? What did I do? Wrong

00:34:43.440 --> 00:34:59.670 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: as opposed to looking at it as well? I wonder how this serves me? What did I do right? And And even though this may not be what I want, I wonder how this will actually work out for the best in the end.

00:34:59.680 --> 00:35:09.799 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so that sense of curiosity gets a little squash. Doesn't it when we feel that there's something wrong with us.

00:35:11.140 --> 00:35:13.600 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, absolutely.

00:35:13.610 --> 00:35:22.520 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: You know, that's an interesting point, because I think from a very young age as a child we

00:35:22.590 --> 00:35:25.160 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: we are

00:35:25.190 --> 00:35:33.879 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: maybe subconsciously aware that that we are creators, meaning we create our experiences. Okay, if I if

00:35:33.890 --> 00:35:52.830 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: if i'm doing something that made Daddy unhappy or upset, then i'm creating that this experience. So I must be bad, and you know it's as we grew up. This this type of program and conditioning continues, and then

00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:57.969 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: it Um! It's a bad practice, because it

00:35:58.250 --> 00:36:02.240 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: we're we're trying to always

00:36:02.360 --> 00:36:15.389 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: um please trying to please other people to make them happy, so that we feel worthy, so that so that we get the love that we're missing from within

00:36:15.400 --> 00:36:24.739 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: right? A couple questions, and I want to get into your parallel. So what kinds of

00:36:24.750 --> 00:36:47.609 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: when you talk to somebody. What kind of indications do you find that that show like there is some lack of self love, that true self love not not egoistic self love, What kind of indications are there? And then what kinds of exercises, or what kinds of things can you offer to people to help them to cultivate the self. Love.

00:36:47.770 --> 00:36:55.569 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, Absolutely so. A science that someone is lacking in self-a are

00:36:56.820 --> 00:37:00.660 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: feeling like they're not enough

00:37:00.670 --> 00:37:11.670 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: feeling like they're not worthy. And but how does that show up in their life What kinds of like That's the cause? But what does the symptoms look like

00:37:12.170 --> 00:37:18.579 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: symptoms look like low energy? It looks like

00:37:18.600 --> 00:37:34.730 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: maybe low-grade depression. It looks like you're not confident. And you know you're always looking for someone to make the decision for you and you you don't trust yourself.

00:37:34.940 --> 00:37:37.649 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Hmm. Okay, Yeah.

00:37:37.660 --> 00:38:03.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah. And so then someone comes to you and you can see it in their body language, their tone of voice. And in the you know, after having a conversation and the kinds of decisions they make or aren't making. So then, like, what would you offer to them? What would you say, like, What kind of exercises, or what kinds of insights can you give someone to set them on the path of of looking at self-love and cultivating more self love

00:38:04.370 --> 00:38:05.709 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: absolutely.

00:38:05.720 --> 00:38:09.790 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So what I always suggest are affirmations.

00:38:09.800 --> 00:38:26.349 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Affirmations are so powerful. Affirmations are basically statements that you craft you you can write it out, you can speak out aloud. Um, generally is the opposite of how you feel. If you feel bad, say that you're afraid

00:38:26.360 --> 00:38:36.319 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: the more that you say it, even especially in a mirror. The more that you say it, the more that you start to believe it, then you start to feel it in your body, and it's such a powerful practice,

00:38:37.410 --> 00:38:46.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I see. I see. Can you give us an example of an affirmation? Would you be willing to share one of your affirmations that you read to yourself every morning.

00:38:47.540 --> 00:38:50.429 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. Yeah. So um

00:38:50.660 --> 00:38:52.799 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: for mine. Um,

00:38:53.480 --> 00:39:03.009 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I use different affirmations, depending on how I feel. And this morning the one that I use was, I feel great,

00:39:03.100 --> 00:39:08.349 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I feel great, I feel joyful, i'm, i'm in gratitude.

00:39:08.700 --> 00:39:15.779 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Things are great. I am having a great day. I'm having a great day. I'm loving life.

00:39:16.590 --> 00:39:24.390 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, wonderful, wonderful. It's kind of like stating it before it happens. Helps to bring it about Doesn't It

00:39:24.400 --> 00:39:26.490 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Mhm absolutely

00:39:26.500 --> 00:39:42.940 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: all right. We are creators, right, all right, and I guess that gets us into your parallel. Your power line affirm your transformation. So what gave you the idea to sort of take this idea of affirmations and apply it to clothing of all things.

00:39:43.290 --> 00:39:58.109 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. Yeah. So confirmations are great. I love it. And this idea really came about when one day I was in my bathroom, I was looking in my large bathroom mirror.

00:39:58.120 --> 00:40:16.669 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I wasn't feeling particularly great, and I felt for myself. I wish there's something that could that I could have, or where that makes me feel better, and that's how I created Affirmation shirts. And what's special about the affirmation shirts is that

00:40:16.680 --> 00:40:18.890 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: it's in reflection. Deal

00:40:18.900 --> 00:40:25.780 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: is not the words it's for me to read to myself,

00:40:25.790 --> 00:40:35.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So so they're backwards. So it's like. When you look in the mirror you see it in the manner in the right way. But if someone is looking at you wearing the shirt, it looks in reverse

00:40:35.200 --> 00:40:44.679 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: absolutely. Oh, cool, cool! I like that idea. I like that idea. Can you give us some samples of some of your shared so like, What do they say?

00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:54.709 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. So I'm. Actually wearing one one right now. So let me show you this one says I am healing energy

00:40:54.720 --> 00:41:01.189 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: because this is. This is good for me, because sometimes I need healing,

00:41:01.200 --> 00:41:21.199 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: and if healing is not always physical, it's also emotional. It's in the mental right. So uh this is a a great affirmation that that I love. Um, but our bestseller is is the one that says I am ready. So many of us feel like

00:41:21.210 --> 00:41:23.279 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: as well.

00:41:23.660 --> 00:41:29.749 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I am worthy. I was going to ask you what your best seller is. That's interesting. What's your second bestseller?

00:41:30.400 --> 00:41:45.280 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: The second bestseller is. I am amazing. Ah, okay, I like that one. I am amazing, wonderful, wonderful! And And so how long ago did you start this parallel?

00:41:45.620 --> 00:41:48.989 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So I actually started a last November.

00:41:49.000 --> 00:42:03.219 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: So So what's been the initial reaction to it, I mean, Did your friends think you're crazy? Did they think it was cool? I mean, did did things to start selling well right away, or has it been slow ramping up, or you know what? What's the experience with like?

00:42:03.420 --> 00:42:11.380 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah. Great question. I think so many people are not aware yet of the

00:42:11.390 --> 00:42:25.069 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: of these shirts, the power to rewire, thinking our feeling, and our lies so right now it's a little slow to ramp up, but people are catching on. They're like, wow,

00:42:25.080 --> 00:42:31.970 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: like once you order one shirt you will feel amazed, and how great it is so

00:42:32.300 --> 00:42:41.819 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: awesome, awesome. I definitely have to get one. And so if people are interested in it, where do they find the shirts? Can they order it online, Or is it just in stores?

00:42:41.990 --> 00:42:59.850 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Um. You can order online. Ah, from your transformation, dot com. And Ah, yeah, I like you all to check it out, and I'm also taking custom borders as well. If there is a specific image that will transform your life,

00:42:59.860 --> 00:43:07.029 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: that that is powerful, and I invite you to create your custom, affirmation shirt that is even more powerful.

00:43:07.040 --> 00:43:27.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Oh, cool, all right, all right. It's time for us to take a last little break for the show when we come back. I'd like to hear a little bit of your journey, of of becoming an entrepreneur. And now, like kind of starting your own business and what that's been like and and sort of what? What are the challenges you're facing, and and where do you see things going from here. Okay,

00:43:27.450 --> 00:43:28.490 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: absolutely

00:43:28.500 --> 00:43:42.720 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: awesome. So everyone please stay tuned. You're listening to the conscious consult. Now awakening humanity. My guest, This hour has been Thomas in the founder of the apparel line. Affirm your transformation, and we will be right back in just a moment.

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00:45:44.610 --> 00:46:02.900 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and welcome back to the conscious consult now awakening humanity. So so, Thomas, you you've delved into the world of entrepreneurship by by starting your own business. What was that like? What was the biggest surprise for you in kind of starting your own business?

00:46:03.660 --> 00:46:10.720 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Right? I think the biggest surprise is how challenging it is.

00:46:11.140 --> 00:46:28.219 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: And you know, I I think, that when I see other entrepreneurs making it, they're all they're mostly showing their highlights. Oh, i'm making this money. I'm helping transform the world and all that. But

00:46:28.230 --> 00:46:44.279 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I think when we start out we start from the ground up and it's a good challenge. It's a good challenge, because I am stepping into my passion. I am stepping into my goals and dreams of healing the world, and it's just my honor to do this life's work.

00:46:44.290 --> 00:46:46.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Hmm. Hmm.

00:46:47.410 --> 00:47:06.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And um! If there's someone listening and they're thinking about, you know, jumping into entrepreneurship or starting something new like, What what would you say to them like? How should they prepare themselves sort of mentally or or energetically, for for that? Ah, new venture?

00:47:07.240 --> 00:47:12.090 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Great question! Um! I would say, start,

00:47:12.100 --> 00:47:40.760 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: try things out. Follow your passion. Um, Because the more that you do, the more that you find out if this is really something that you want to. Ah, you know, dedicate your life doing, and so never stop trying. And of course you don't have to just quit your job and just do this full time, but don't be afraid to to try things out and always have a vision to have a goal of what you want to achieve. Because

00:47:40.770 --> 00:47:50.630 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: that is going to be your why and your why is so important to propel you to pick one step after another to move forward.

00:47:50.640 --> 00:48:07.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, yeah, Always kind of keeping in mind the whole reason why you got into whatever you're doing anyway, but that sometimes, when we get caught up in the day to day kind of decisions and work and challenges that we're dealing with, we sometimes lose sight of that Don't, we

00:48:07.770 --> 00:48:08.589 absolutely,

00:48:08.600 --> 00:48:09.600 you know.

00:48:09.670 --> 00:48:11.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah. So um.

00:48:11.930 --> 00:48:18.909 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And and in terms of like coaching and your coaching practice. What's been your your challenge with that?

00:48:20.070 --> 00:48:21.149 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Um,

00:48:21.160 --> 00:48:21.889 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: I think

00:48:21.900 --> 00:48:38.020 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: currently the challenge that I have would be um to wrap, wrap up so so currently. I am doing one on one spiritual stuff of coaching, and I love. That is my passion, and I feel like

00:48:38.030 --> 00:48:53.490 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: um. It might be um a bottleneck, because I only have so much time in a day, and I want to help even more people. So in the very near future. I want to launch a cohort,

00:48:53.500 --> 00:49:00.289 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: to be able to help heal more than just one person at a time. So right, right? Right.

00:49:00.300 --> 00:49:19.670 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah. Doing group work. I I I used to do one-on-one coaching myself as well occasionally. I do it now. But rarely I really much more prefer doing group work, so that when you work with multiple people at the same time, you actually can have a greater impact, Right?

00:49:19.750 --> 00:49:28.860 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Absolutely. And it's also thinking advantage of the synergy, because right person has a challenge, and you help you

00:49:28.870 --> 00:49:39.820 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: solve that challenge or offer insight more than what the person gets to benefit. It's. It's like a group healing thing going on right? Right? Right?

00:49:40.580 --> 00:49:43.610 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So if we look at the world today, I mean

00:49:43.670 --> 00:49:55.009 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: there's a lot of symptoms of a lack of self-love in the world today on not an individual level, but more on a almost a societal level.

00:49:55.540 --> 00:49:57.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What kind of

00:49:57.430 --> 00:50:00.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: what do you think it will take to

00:50:00.910 --> 00:50:05.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: cultivate more self-love in society today,

00:50:05.230 --> 00:50:22.340 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: right? Because there's so many things that work against it. You know you look on social media. You see, like everyone seems to be living these amazing lives because you don't see them really talking about the challenging times or the things that go wrong. And And so when you, when you see like just this, this

00:50:22.350 --> 00:50:40.309 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: vision or this image that people put out there of like Oh, look at this great trip, i'm taking a look at this wonderful thing. But you don't hear about how depressed they feel. You tend to think like there must be something wrong with you, and then that creates feelings of lack of self-love, because you think other people have it so great, and you have it so hard.

00:50:41.800 --> 00:50:55.849 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: No, absolutely that that is a truth, and I would say self-love comes from within, like we all have to do our inner work, all of us and to to having that awareness that

00:50:56.010 --> 00:51:24.219 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: what is shown on social media is just the the best. That is, the highlight reels of somebody's life, and Don't compare ourselves with them because you you won't see their they're both down times you won't see when they are at the most depressed. So um learn to to love yourself and and to know that what is what what is shown is only the best, and

00:51:24.230 --> 00:51:28.600 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: to out to reach out to a friend, talk,

00:51:29.210 --> 00:51:45.019 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: share, be vulnerable, and share how you really feel, because there are people who love you who are there to support you, and if you don't open up, then you don't get the support and the healing that you that you really need.

00:51:45.030 --> 00:51:47.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Hmm. Yeah, Absolutely

00:51:47.100 --> 00:52:02.750 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: absolutely. Being vulnerable is so so important and really being present, I mean going back to sort of where we started the show today about being present to the conversations you're having, and being vulnerable to share, and and just that

00:52:03.280 --> 00:52:22.180 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: being vulnerable and being present, just that in and of itself, is is like opening a big steam valve and releasing this pressure. And then, once we do that, then we can do things like use affirmations to to build ourselves back up. Um,

00:52:22.190 --> 00:52:34.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: i'm curious. So with with your power line, how many different affirmations do you have, I know, You said, You can do custom ones, but of the the standard ones you have, How many standard affirmations do you have for? Self-

00:52:35.100 --> 00:52:39.890 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, right now I feel like I I have about eight, so I

00:52:39.900 --> 00:52:54.190 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: um I've got. I am worthy. I am healing energy. I'm amazing. I am the one who deserved my love the most. Oh, that's a good one.

00:52:54.200 --> 00:53:00.959 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, I am love. I am extraordinary, and I honor my body. Temple.

00:53:01.100 --> 00:53:07.229 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Ah, nice, nice, very cool, very cool.

00:53:07.240 --> 00:53:25.670 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Um! And and and I know you mentioned the idea of of doing cohorts and doing group stuff. Is there anything else on the horizon. Are there any new, I know, like the mind of an entrepreneur? We're always thinking of new ways and and new things to offer? Um! Is there anything else on the horizons for you.

00:53:25.850 --> 00:53:39.799 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, absolutely. So. Um. One of my greatest dreams that I actually just started extend um a few weeks ago is I want to start a sub-lab school.

00:53:40.080 --> 00:53:51.069 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Love is so important. It is the foundation for our joy, for our home living for a happiness. And it's not taught in school. So how do we learn?

00:53:51.080 --> 00:54:07.079 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: And I really want to um to share this as a gift to the world and to empower um and and train the next generation to to grow up with a solid foundation of self-love.

00:54:07.090 --> 00:54:23.170 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Yeah, Nice nice. I love that idea. I love that idea very, cool, very cool. Well, you let let us know when you're gonna launch that school, and uh, maybe we'll have You come back on and and talk about it. And what's going on with that? Um.

00:54:23.180 --> 00:54:34.789 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So we we all just got a couple of minutes left, Thomas. Um. If so, if people want to get in touch with you. You learn more about you. How can they find you online? Where else may? Can they seek you out?

00:54:34.800 --> 00:54:52.450 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Yeah, Absolutely. So i'm on all major social media platforms. It's at a fermi transformation on Facebook, on Instagram, on Twitter. It's at a firm transform. You're gonna also email me directly at Thomas

00:54:52.460 --> 00:55:00.490 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: at a firm. Your transformation, Com. And also the website is the same thing, and from your transformation com

00:55:00.500 --> 00:55:11.579 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: wonderful, wonderful! Well, thank you, Thomas, I really appreciate you taking time out of your day to come on the show today. I hope you the rest of your day goes as well.

00:55:11.700 --> 00:55:15.490 Thomas Ng, Spiritual Self Love Coach: Thank you so much, Sam. It is truly my pleasure. Thanks for having me.

00:55:15.500 --> 00:55:27.319 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You're welcome. You're welcome, and of course thank you, my loyal listeners, especially Paddy. She's been really active on the on the Youtube live stream.

00:55:27.330 --> 00:55:46.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Uh, you know also stating how life is a gift that you know when you get a little bit older i'm not going to say how old she is, she She put it on the on, the on, the livestream, on the comments. So you gotta go there if you want to know how well that he is. But um, you know, as we get older, we we do kind of get to that point eventually where you realize

00:55:47.320 --> 00:55:52.479 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: there are more days behind us than there are in front of us, and so we really

00:55:52.530 --> 00:56:06.719 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that's when we start to learn to truly cherish life, and truly cherish every moment. And the thing is we don't really know. I mean nobody knows what tomorrow's going to bring for us, so we don't know how many days are before us, even if we're young.

00:56:07.340 --> 00:56:22.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So I strongly encourage everyone to really. Ah, cherish your life, Cherish every day, just be in the moment, because that's all we really have, because nobody knows what tomorrow is going to bring,

00:56:22.460 --> 00:56:33.599 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and the life we have today, even if we sure we're going to keep living, but it could be a totally different life in the future So to just know that.

00:56:33.970 --> 00:56:42.249 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I love the idea of the self-love transformations, that I am the one who deserves my love the most That's such a beautiful one,

00:56:42.410 --> 00:56:47.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and to know, like you know, you do deserve your own love.

00:56:47.610 --> 00:57:17.569 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I think that's such a powerful message to to really take with us this week. Um, so thank you all for tuning in next week. I have an author schedule to come on. Ah, ah, lucid um! We're going to be talking about her book, and I have it here somewhere. Ah, but I don't call the name of it off the top of my head. So you got to tune in, and if you haven't you've got to subscribe to the newsletter, go to talk radio down Nyc and click on. Join the

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00:57:28.540 --> 00:57:55.909 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Ah, Reverend Dr. Carolyn Curry every with the show right before she had a wonderful ah spiritual teacher in Galer on her show this week. So catch that um if you're listening on talk, radio and Nyc. Coming up at five o'clock P. M. Eastern time today is Frank about health. Um, and for all those new listeners joining us on. Kmt: Thank you so much for joining us. Um, thank you all for tuning in, and we will talk to you all next week.