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Sam reads a section from his book Everyday Awakening entitled Trust is More Precious Than The Most Valuable Gem.You can find a copy of Sam’s book at EverydayAwakeningBook.com. Sam wrote this piece when the trust was broken between him and a mentor. Sam says in order for us to be trustworthy, it’s something we have to earn constantly. He continues to talk about the value of trust and how it benefits our relationships. Sam shares how challenging it can be to gain someone’s trust back.
Sam tells his audience about his time on the road and transforming his business into a virtual model. He says he had to put a lot of trust into his decisions and go with the flow of things. Broken trust can be a painful experience, but Sam believes that trust broken is an opportunity for us to heal. It is a time to trust ourselves on a deeper level. Sam has been experimenting all summer while away on the west coast. He says that trust is so important when you are experimenting with your life.
Sam tells a very personal story of a time he was a senior in high school. He sets the scene of the story and shares how his girlfriend broke their trust when she cheated with Sam’s good friend at a party. Sam talks about his experience and how it crushed in the moment. Sam explains it was hard to open his heart to another woman for a long time. He states the importance of inner work and how it is the key to healing from broken trust.
Sam encourages his listeners to use situations where trust was broken as an opportunity to grow. Sam says we have to use trust in ourselves rather than other people. Because the only way we can be trustworthy is if we do the inner work.
00:00:38.070 --> 00:00:42.270 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Good afternoon, my conscious co creators.
00:00:42.300 --> 00:00:52.080 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Welcome to another edition of the conscious consultant our awakening humanity i'm very, very pleased that you were here with me today.
00:00:53.910 --> 00:01:03.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I hope you enjoyed my show last week, where I told him very, very personal story is the first time I told that kind of publicly um.
00:01:03.540 --> 00:01:12.750 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And i'd love to hear your feedback on it i'd love to hear your thoughts on it today, I am supposed to have a guest, but unfortunately.
00:01:13.200 --> 00:01:21.270 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: One of her kids got very sick and she had to take him to the hospital so she's not going to make it so it's going to be another one of these shows just you and me so.
00:01:22.110 --> 00:01:30.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Please let me know anything you want to talk about put it into the comments I have some ideas of course we're going to start off with this section from my book.
00:01:30.420 --> 00:01:48.240 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And then we'll we'll see where life takes us from there, so let's get started with this little chapter from my book, everyday awakening and this chapter is entitled trust is more precious than the most valuable gem.
00:01:50.100 --> 00:02:00.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It is not easy to trust someone trust is something we build over time trust comes with the presence, we feel from each other.
00:02:02.100 --> 00:02:04.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Trust is a sacred bond.
00:02:05.790 --> 00:02:15.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When someone trusts us, we must take it very seriously whether we are they are trusting us with their time their money or their secrets.
00:02:16.620 --> 00:02:30.240 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: They are putting us in a very honored position when that is delicate and sensitive for that trust can be easily broken by the slip of a word or a careless gesture.
00:02:31.710 --> 00:02:45.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: People trust us, because we are trustworthy yet to remain trustworthy can be difficult, there are temptations to break that trust to share what they told us in confidence to someone else.
00:02:47.100 --> 00:02:52.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To take just a little something that isn't ours, because they will never notice.
00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:58.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To tell that little or big white lie, because they will never find out.
00:03:00.660 --> 00:03:01.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And then they do.
00:03:02.790 --> 00:03:08.040 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and trust is broken sometimes beyond repair.
00:03:09.780 --> 00:03:21.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We break the trust placed in us, because we don't value it enough because we don't understand the sacredness with which it was given to us.
00:03:22.500 --> 00:03:39.540 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we deeply understand that there is no currency greater than trust we will treat it very differently, respecting it immensely and holding it as more precious than the most valuable gem.
00:03:40.980 --> 00:03:54.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Indeed, trust is like the finest crystal glass in the world beautiful to behold, yet once it is broken It can never be restored exactly the way it was before.
00:03:55.230 --> 00:04:06.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When someone trusts us enough to follow us to work with us to give us access to their heart and their dreams, it is the greatest gift of all.
00:04:09.390 --> 00:04:11.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Where do people trust you.
00:04:12.690 --> 00:04:15.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: How precious do you take that trust.
00:04:16.260 --> 00:04:19.860 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Can you cherish it even just a little bit more.
00:04:22.290 --> 00:04:25.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So I wrote this piece, a while ago.
00:04:27.690 --> 00:04:31.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it came when trust got broken with.
00:04:32.580 --> 00:04:35.040 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: A mentor a teacher someone who.
00:04:36.300 --> 00:04:39.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I held in high esteem in high regard.
00:04:40.710 --> 00:04:43.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And not just myself but, but many people did.
00:04:46.740 --> 00:04:56.550 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And then, it turned out, he was doing some things that were not so cool that we're really not cool to really hurt a lot of people.
00:04:59.970 --> 00:05:04.560 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And when we found out, it was such a big shock because.
00:05:06.540 --> 00:05:08.430 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: He seemed to help people so much.
00:05:09.900 --> 00:05:16.830 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to heal to guide to to show us a different path in life.
00:05:20.040 --> 00:05:31.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so, because so many of us had experienced such wonderful things in his presence to find out that he had done something so horrible that was hard to like reconcile this.
00:05:34.590 --> 00:05:37.590 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And what eventually kind of came forward was.
00:05:39.450 --> 00:05:42.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: He had reached a sort of a certain level.
00:05:44.010 --> 00:05:46.380 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And he stopped doing his own work.
00:05:47.520 --> 00:05:51.660 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: He was aware of his own traumas he was aware of.
00:05:52.860 --> 00:06:12.660 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know his own challenges, but he stopped working to unfold those traumas he stopped working to deal with these things he he kind of acted like it's okay I got it together, things are great because he improved so much and he fell in that trap and it's a trap that we can all get in.
00:06:15.510 --> 00:06:17.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Where we've done so much work.
00:06:20.250 --> 00:06:28.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we've gotten to a certain level where we feel hey i'm good like I got things handled i'm good no worries everything's peachy keen.
00:06:31.890 --> 00:06:33.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Except that what happens is.
00:06:35.220 --> 00:06:37.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we don't continue to do our work.
00:06:39.120 --> 00:06:43.290 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we're not so good anymore, because life continues to throw things at us.
00:06:44.790 --> 00:06:46.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It throws challenges temptations and.
00:06:48.240 --> 00:06:52.110 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's sort of almost like when we becomes so.
00:06:56.160 --> 00:06:58.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: In a place of influence.
00:07:00.780 --> 00:07:05.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: If there's such a temptation, a place of power, almost.
00:07:06.900 --> 00:07:14.400 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: There is a great temptation to use that power that influence merely for our own gratification.
00:07:16.950 --> 00:07:35.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And that is one of the biggest traps people get into, and we can see it all the time, we see it in anyone who has power in whether it's politics or move or entertainment or religious organizations or cults or whatever you want to call it.
00:07:38.070 --> 00:07:40.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We get tempted with this.
00:07:42.810 --> 00:07:48.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Trust that people placed in us and then we abuse it we misuse it.
00:07:50.670 --> 00:07:54.390 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it's one of the saddest things in the world to see.
00:07:56.820 --> 00:08:01.860 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because we had been in such a position of honor and authority.
00:08:03.810 --> 00:08:04.950 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we've wasted it.
00:08:05.970 --> 00:08:09.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we've carelessly broken it.
00:08:12.420 --> 00:08:14.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so, when this happened.
00:08:15.390 --> 00:08:19.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It really was a big wake up call for me and many people in the Community.
00:08:22.110 --> 00:08:27.870 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I discussed it with with people and I reflected on it a lot.
00:08:29.730 --> 00:08:31.080 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I realized that.
00:08:32.640 --> 00:08:35.730 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: In order for us to continue to be trustworthy.
00:08:37.980 --> 00:08:40.380 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's something we have to constantly earn.
00:08:42.810 --> 00:08:53.370 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And the only way to constantly earn people's trust is to continue to do our own work it's to continue to.
00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:57.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Look deep in ourselves and see.
00:08:59.400 --> 00:09:04.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What traumas do we have to unfold what needs do we have that are not being met.
00:09:06.930 --> 00:09:16.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What can we do to show up in a better way to be more present with people to help people more to show up in a way that's a true contribution.
00:09:19.560 --> 00:09:28.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know it's kind of funny last night I got together with with some people and and a dear woman who, I have to have back on the show again.
00:09:29.610 --> 00:09:33.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: gave us this wonderful question it's her favorite question to ask.
00:09:36.000 --> 00:09:42.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And kind of related to this and i'm going to tell you about it later, but but remind me if I forget.
00:09:45.120 --> 00:09:52.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But that trust that the way we show up in life is so important.
00:09:53.670 --> 00:10:01.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it's so interesting because we really don't value trust and that's what this is really about that's what this section of the book about.
00:10:03.000 --> 00:10:12.960 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Is it when we really under understand and value the importance of trust and get how significant it is in life.
00:10:14.040 --> 00:10:22.380 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We would treat trust with so much more reverence with so much more care.
00:10:24.870 --> 00:10:34.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It would be more valuable to us, then all the money in our bank accounts, then our property than anything else.
00:10:36.120 --> 00:10:38.910 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because when people trust us.
00:10:40.590 --> 00:10:42.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: there's so much we can make happen.
00:10:44.460 --> 00:10:49.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And when people don't trust us there's almost nothing we can make happen.
00:10:54.270 --> 00:11:00.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we look around at the world and we see the chaos, the craziness the division.
00:11:01.860 --> 00:11:07.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we're like, how do we heal this, how do we improve things oh my God, things are so NUTS out there.
00:11:10.920 --> 00:11:14.040 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: One, not the only but one key element.
00:11:17.850 --> 00:11:21.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Is understanding how precious the trust people have in us is.
00:11:23.580 --> 00:11:25.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and treating it with the utmost care.
00:11:27.840 --> 00:11:31.320 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So, indeed, after this whole experience went down.
00:11:34.440 --> 00:11:45.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Not only did I realize, like, I have to keep doing my own work if i'm going to continue to work with people if i'm going to continue to guide people and help people and do things.
00:11:47.790 --> 00:11:49.200 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I realized that.
00:11:51.090 --> 00:11:54.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Trust once broken is very hard to get back.
00:11:58.290 --> 00:12:05.580 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I remember, I had an incident myself long, long time ago i'll tell you about it when we come back from break.
00:12:07.470 --> 00:12:07.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Where.
00:12:09.390 --> 00:12:12.390 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The bond of trust was broken, and I was shattered.
00:12:17.370 --> 00:12:20.880 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: easiest way to keep from losing trust.
00:12:21.930 --> 00:12:24.750 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: is to understand how precious trust is.
00:12:25.920 --> 00:12:27.900 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's to value trust.
00:12:29.790 --> 00:12:31.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And really get that.
00:12:35.370 --> 00:12:36.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know.
00:12:37.380 --> 00:12:44.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Whatever time and energy and effort we have spent building up people's trust in us.
00:12:45.750 --> 00:12:55.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We need to hold that so preciously so reverently so sacredly.
00:12:58.350 --> 00:13:05.940 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That we would be very, very, very careful before we ever did anything to break that trust.
00:13:10.710 --> 00:13:11.370 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Now look.
00:13:12.480 --> 00:13:17.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Two things happen beyond our control that might cause us to bury trust absolutely.
00:13:19.590 --> 00:13:21.240 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But when that happens.
00:13:22.740 --> 00:13:26.760 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can show up and explain our humanity.
00:13:28.080 --> 00:13:33.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And let people know look this isn't what was meant to happen, this is why it happened.
00:13:35.970 --> 00:13:45.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we can start to work to rebuild that trust when it was an honest mistake when it was something that was beyond our control.
00:13:48.270 --> 00:13:49.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But when that's not the case.
00:13:50.880 --> 00:13:53.700 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When it's something that's very much in our control.
00:13:55.200 --> 00:14:00.540 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And when it's something that when you look at it, it is was just a complete abuse of trust.
00:14:02.250 --> 00:14:09.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: trying to get that trust back don't know that it's so easy it's very, very challenging.
00:14:13.230 --> 00:14:14.970 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So hold that trust.
00:14:16.110 --> 00:14:18.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Whenever trust people place in you.
00:14:19.890 --> 00:14:25.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Whether it is the trust of a partner, a spouse or loved one a child, the parent.
00:14:29.790 --> 00:14:35.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: doesn't mean we do everything that someone else wants from us, far from it.
00:14:36.240 --> 00:14:39.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we're human beings were individuals we live our own life.
00:14:45.450 --> 00:14:47.610 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But that basic trust.
00:14:51.240 --> 00:14:55.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: yeah that's something really precious and that's something.
00:14:56.430 --> 00:14:59.070 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To hold on to very, very dearly.
00:15:02.220 --> 00:15:12.270 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Okay, so that's a little section from my book, again, if you haven't gotten it, yet I don't know why you haven't gotten it yet he's invited by now.
00:15:12.810 --> 00:15:17.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and actually it makes it very good gift actually gave it as a gift to someone last night.
00:15:17.700 --> 00:15:35.880 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Go to www dot every day awakening book.com it'll take you right to the listing on Amazon, but if you're like me and you like to go to the small independent booksellers just ask them to order it for you were in the major distributors, so they can get everyday awakening from Sam leibowitz.
00:15:37.200 --> 00:15:43.860 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And please I would love your feedback if you've have read it, or if you're in the process of reading it.
00:15:44.520 --> 00:15:54.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And you've reflected on something and the you know you have a maybe a different perspective or maybe it's touched you in some way, please I would love to hear from you.
00:15:55.320 --> 00:16:04.350 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You can always reach me at Sam at talk radio dot nyc i'd love to hear what how it affected you and what you got from it okay well.
00:16:04.920 --> 00:16:15.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Time firstly go to a break, and when we come back i'll tell you about that story of at a very young age, a very significant trust was broken.
00:16:16.410 --> 00:16:31.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And how it affected me so deeply so severely and what I learned from it and and how it shaped me so and and will continue on and and will continue to talk.
00:16:32.610 --> 00:16:42.030 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: About a journey in life and let you know what's been going on with me as well, so everyone, please stay tuned you're listening to that conscious consultant our awakening humanity.
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00:19:12.750 --> 00:19:22.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Welcome back to the conscious consultant our awakening humanity today we've got another one of these me only shows it's just me and you for the hour, so please.
00:19:22.890 --> 00:19:31.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: comment on the Facebook live, let me know what's going on for you and you know, maybe I can support you in some way, maybe we can.
00:19:31.980 --> 00:19:36.570 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You can help steer the conversation in direction that really serves you today.
00:19:37.110 --> 00:19:43.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So I just want to say, if you notice during the break me looking down, you know i'm checking my phone because.
00:19:43.770 --> 00:19:56.670 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I don't have my usual setup i'm not at home haven't been at home, all summer so I need my phone to kind of check the Facebook live and see if people are asking questions or or what's going on, so that that's why you see me looking down sometimes.
00:19:57.750 --> 00:20:06.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And, and you know part of it is i've been on this big adventure during the summer and I don't think i've mentioned it on the show before I might have but.
00:20:07.680 --> 00:20:17.370 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's kind of one of the gifts of the pandemic and of this new, more virtual world we're living in.
00:20:18.120 --> 00:20:30.390 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Both me and my wife our businesses are all now completely online and we've been kind of just working out of our two bedroom apartment in New York City, for the last two and a half years and we decided, you know what.
00:20:31.230 --> 00:20:46.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can work from home from other homes, we don't have to be in our home, and so we closed up our office in February, we decided to paying rent like just didn't make sense anymore got out of our five year lease lead two and a half years left on it.
00:20:47.340 --> 00:20:48.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:20:49.260 --> 00:20:56.910 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We decided to try something different, and and to be open and um you know friend of ours.
00:20:57.360 --> 00:21:05.940 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: we've has been going around and she's been house sitting and pet sitting for people since the beginning of the year and she's just constantly going everywhere.
00:21:06.420 --> 00:21:13.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so, she told us about this website my wife signed up for it and we got invited to to.
00:21:14.130 --> 00:21:22.740 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: house it for this wonderful couple from Australia down in encinitas near San Diego so I was down in encinitas for like four weeks and spent a few extra days in San Diego.
00:21:23.190 --> 00:21:31.200 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And then I mentioned to what we were doing to a friend of ours and and she was like you know what I need to go to Europe to visit relatives, can you.
00:21:31.680 --> 00:21:39.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: How said and take care of a little dog for summer like yeah sure so i've been up in Berkeley for the last four weeks and then this this coming Saturday.
00:21:39.840 --> 00:21:46.800 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: going up to Vancouver I was like you know what I have all these friends, all these people I know in Vancouver who have met virtually and i've never met them in person.
00:21:47.040 --> 00:21:53.610 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: i've other people who i've known and I haven't seen in three years you know I look let's go up to Vancouver my wife was totally up for it.
00:21:54.060 --> 00:22:02.370 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We didn't even know like where we were going to be staying what we're going to be doing until just like in the last week or two so it's been a real.
00:22:03.270 --> 00:22:22.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Practice of trust and and just kind of going with life and, finally, we got a couple of things going to take care of a we've got about two different settings that we're going to be doing up in Vancouver and then we're getting an airbnb in between, for a few days.
00:22:23.970 --> 00:22:30.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And i'm really looking forward to it i've got some wonderful dear friends and i'm looking forward to really.
00:22:31.650 --> 00:22:38.340 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: catching up with and meeting, for the first time in person, and so, last night I mentioned this before.
00:22:39.960 --> 00:22:43.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I got together and I got a chance to meet.
00:22:44.490 --> 00:22:55.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Three people who have never met in person before, but I feel like i've known them because i've been seeing them in these virtual networking events.
00:22:56.280 --> 00:23:06.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: For the last two years, and so, and they were different places that I did drive up about an hour and a half north of where I am.
00:23:06.660 --> 00:23:21.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: As a central place for us all to come together and it was so great to see them and then I invited another woman dear dear friend, Dr Maria namath who's the author of the energy of money he was wonderful person, I have to get her back on the show.
00:23:23.880 --> 00:23:31.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so we got together, and it was so good to have dinner together to chat to get to know each other.
00:23:32.760 --> 00:23:48.180 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So so megan Ray Michael Thank you, thank you for coming out and Dr Maria always a pleasure to spend time with you, Dr Maria i've known for a number of years and we've met in person before but haven't seen her probably in four years time in person.
00:23:49.680 --> 00:23:51.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So it was really an honor.
00:23:52.770 --> 00:23:56.880 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it was really great to to get together.
00:23:58.590 --> 00:24:04.350 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And the thing I think of it like this wouldn't have been possible, three, four years ago.
00:24:06.030 --> 00:24:19.080 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know a lot of people see this world and see what's happened and and you know they don't really like a lot of the changes, a lot of things and I get that that you really can't replace.
00:24:20.970 --> 00:24:27.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You really can't replace in person stuff with virtual stuff.
00:24:28.770 --> 00:24:30.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But it does augment nicely.
00:24:33.300 --> 00:24:45.960 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And the thing is before you know I tell people all the time, if it wasn't for the pandemic there's no way I would have taken the radio station and made it virtual which means I wouldn't have been able to open it up, we wouldn't have a number of hosts that we have now.
00:24:47.040 --> 00:24:50.730 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: In some ways it really forced me to embrace a new model.
00:24:51.930 --> 00:24:54.990 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I really had to trust that, like this was a good way to go.
00:24:57.690 --> 00:25:17.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And because I trusted and because I didn't like the situation and I just continued to you know persevere move forward and say Okay, this is what's in front of me, this is what i've got to do um it really allowed us that this opportunity, so now.
00:25:18.210 --> 00:25:26.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What we're doing we're we're working virtually both me and my wife, you know her with her psychotherapy practice me with the radio station um.
00:25:26.940 --> 00:25:40.320 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But we've been in the west coast, since the middle of June and we're not going to be back in New York until September and it's been wonderful to just experience this new aspect of life.
00:25:42.120 --> 00:25:42.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Of.
00:25:43.920 --> 00:25:50.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: of being able to live in other places and and work, I mean again working from home.
00:25:51.510 --> 00:25:59.760 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But to be able to work and and see what is it like to really live in other places and i've only ever lived in and around New York City.
00:26:01.320 --> 00:26:12.270 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And i've never been away from home longer than probably three three and a half weeks when I went to China with my wife, I mean i've never been away from home for three months.
00:26:13.140 --> 00:26:27.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it's been a wonderful experience, and I feel like when I get back home it'll help me to appreciate what I have there that much more and it helps me to appreciate what it's like to live in other places.
00:26:30.930 --> 00:26:33.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And you know, the theme today is all around trust.
00:26:35.730 --> 00:26:46.080 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And this this experience, because we didn't have everything mapped out we didn't know what we were going to do, I was looking to reconnect with friends, which I did.
00:26:49.080 --> 00:26:53.850 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I mean i'm a very people kind of person I wanted to touch and feel you and.
00:26:54.930 --> 00:27:04.110 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it's been great to like reconnect with with certain people, I mean the other, you know, a couple of weeks ago I reconnected with a friend of mine, Jonathan so good to see you.
00:27:04.560 --> 00:27:18.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Who I worked with 30 years ago 30 years ago we work together, I couldn't believe it and I haven't seen him in probably 20 years um and and he only moved out to the bay area, probably, he said about six years ago, I thought it was longer.
00:27:19.830 --> 00:27:23.520 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: um so was wonderful to reconnect.
00:27:26.550 --> 00:27:30.930 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But I didn't know I didn't know who I was going to see I didn't know who was going to meet up with.
00:27:31.620 --> 00:27:43.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I didn't know how this was all going to work out, you know I sort of had a general idea of you know we're going to go here spend time here we're going to go there, spend time there we're going to go there, spend time there.
00:27:45.150 --> 00:27:46.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so I really.
00:27:48.000 --> 00:27:49.590 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I really appreciate.
00:27:51.390 --> 00:28:04.800 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Having been able to trust that things would be fine that the business would keep going that you know, even though i'm three hours time difference i'd still be able to meet with people still be able to do things.
00:28:05.850 --> 00:28:16.320 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Who aren't on the west coast and i'm also in the middle, I may have mentioned it before but i'm in the middle of building up this whole new branch of the business to the training.
00:28:17.010 --> 00:28:22.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Some of you have heard me mentioned my course before podcast your passion i'll tell you more about that later.
00:28:23.880 --> 00:28:30.660 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But i'm doing, like all this work and and i'm still on meeting with people virtually every day.
00:28:31.920 --> 00:28:33.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And i'm able to.
00:28:34.140 --> 00:28:34.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To keep.
00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:42.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To keep doing what i'm doing, while being in a whole nother part of the country.
00:28:45.600 --> 00:28:54.930 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it took a lot of trust to get me here, it took trust that I am like things are going to be okay.
00:28:56.340 --> 00:29:06.180 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And to trust that you know my friends back home are taking care of our plans and that that i'll be able to continue to you know operate and do things.
00:29:09.420 --> 00:29:12.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it wouldn't have happened without all the work i've done.
00:29:13.620 --> 00:29:25.170 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know, getting back to really valuing trust and and the experience I had before, and I know I haven't told you, yet about that experience you were young in life.
00:29:29.010 --> 00:29:30.960 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But let me just say this that trust.
00:29:34.530 --> 00:29:43.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Broken is an opportunity for us to heal it's painful when we're going through it and i'll i'll explain.
00:29:44.370 --> 00:29:49.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know, when we come back you know what I mean by that, but it is an opportunity.
00:29:50.070 --> 00:29:53.100 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to learn to trust ourselves in an even deeper way.
00:29:55.050 --> 00:30:10.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And and really it's this whole summer, for me, has been an experiment, and you know when you do an experiment, sometimes, things are not so good, some things things turn out well sometimes they just turn out very different.
00:30:12.420 --> 00:30:22.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But when you're experimenting with your life, the trust is so important and trust is what keeps us going and helps us to really.
00:30:24.390 --> 00:30:27.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: embrace where we are in the moment.
00:30:31.050 --> 00:30:32.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so I would like you to think about that.
00:30:34.320 --> 00:30:39.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Where is life calling you to trust it for you to embrace something new.
00:30:41.850 --> 00:30:53.550 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And sometimes embracing something new, requires a help of a guide help of somebody who you can work with to support you in.
00:30:54.360 --> 00:31:15.240 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Dealing with challenges when you're trusting something new, so attempt let's take another break when I come back i'll get into that little story of what happened to me long, long time ago, I would say, was one of the most painful moments when trust was broken.
00:31:16.800 --> 00:31:27.900 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And, and what I learned from it and how it still affects me to this day i'll get to that question that was asked last night that I thought was such a wonderful question.
00:31:28.440 --> 00:31:39.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and will continue to talk about trust so again, if you have any thoughts comments questions around trust around trusting in life, trusting in yourself.
00:31:39.930 --> 00:31:50.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Please put it in the the Facebook chat i'll i'll get to it as soon as I can, and I appreciate you tuning in today and, yes, my guests, unfortunately, could not be with us.
00:31:51.450 --> 00:32:03.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But I have another wonderful guest next week, who will definitely be there, so everyone, please stay tuned you're listening to the conscious consultant our awakening humanity and we will be right back after these messages.
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00:34:11.760 --> 00:34:20.520 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Welcome back to the conscious consultant our awakening humanity, I appreciate you all sticking around with me, even though my guests didn't make it today.
00:34:21.270 --> 00:34:34.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: This is one of those times I have to find things to talk about off the cuff, that I haven't talked about before so today's theme, based on the chapter my book is all about trust.
00:34:36.030 --> 00:34:47.130 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And this is one of those times, where I have to trust that this is all for the best that the you know, unfortunately, my guest had a family emergency she had to take care of now hopefully.
00:34:48.150 --> 00:34:49.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Everything is okay.
00:34:50.490 --> 00:34:53.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But we continue to move forward, you and I.
00:34:55.080 --> 00:34:59.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: were talking about trust and I mentioned earlier in the show that.
00:35:00.060 --> 00:35:08.490 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I had a very painful incident, when I was younger was actually when I was in high school was a senior in high school.
00:35:09.990 --> 00:35:12.840 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it's one of those moments where.
00:35:15.210 --> 00:35:17.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The trust is broken and you just feel shattered.
00:35:19.140 --> 00:35:19.560 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:35:20.790 --> 00:35:24.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It involved my girlfriend my very first girlfriend.
00:35:26.340 --> 00:35:27.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:32.430 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It was summer of my senior year of high school.
00:35:33.660 --> 00:35:49.860 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And she was throwing a party at her apartment her parents were way was just her and her sister younger sister and she's throwing a party in a whole bunch of people there, you know I invited people She invited people might have mutual friends from school.
00:35:52.230 --> 00:35:55.260 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we were partying and we were getting.
00:35:56.340 --> 00:36:02.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: drunk and stoned and you know I mean very difficult 70s party okay.
00:36:03.150 --> 00:36:05.640 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: This is nothing new and.
00:36:10.200 --> 00:36:11.520 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: still hard to talk about it.
00:36:14.640 --> 00:36:15.990 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: In the middle of the party.
00:36:19.350 --> 00:36:22.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: She goes downstairs to where her bedroom is and she had this.
00:36:24.330 --> 00:36:32.400 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: She lived in this brownstone apartment with her parents and her parents rooms were upstairs and her sister had this big bedroom downstairs with a big.
00:36:32.910 --> 00:36:36.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Like bookshelf dividing it and there was someone down in there.
00:36:37.110 --> 00:36:50.220 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And with his girlfriend and she was like i'm going to go down and see what they're doing and i'm like no no leave alone don't don't bother them and she goes down to the kind of spy on this couple and then this guy who was really.
00:36:51.450 --> 00:36:56.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: One of my two best friends at the time i'm going to go down to and the two of them are down there.
00:36:59.520 --> 00:37:08.130 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And they were down there for a while and they were down there for longer and minutes turned into almost an hour.
00:37:09.450 --> 00:37:13.800 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I started to realize what was going on.
00:37:16.770 --> 00:37:18.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:37:19.800 --> 00:37:29.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: They were down there from really a long time, and I remember, there was this kid who like left his shoes down there any want to get his shoes, but, but people were in there and.
00:37:30.210 --> 00:37:45.210 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so they go i'm going down to get my shoes and see what's going on, and so I go down and I follow this person down and they opened the door to the bedroom and they grab their shoes and I hear my friend saying hey who's there and just in his tone of voice and everything.
00:37:46.710 --> 00:37:49.560 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I could just tell I knew what had happened.
00:37:51.870 --> 00:37:53.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I was crushed.
00:37:56.040 --> 00:38:03.090 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And it was like it was like something out of a French movie my my my girlfriend and my best friend.
00:38:05.640 --> 00:38:10.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And, and I would say, they were doing it behind my back, but they really weren't doing it behind my bag that was like almost right in front of me.
00:38:14.430 --> 00:38:15.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:38:17.370 --> 00:38:20.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Just that bond of trust.
00:38:22.830 --> 00:38:36.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: between yourself and a lover being broken like that and I walked back upstairs and I sat down in a chair and I was basically cat it tonic for the rest of the night.
00:38:38.310 --> 00:38:39.720 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I just couldn't believe it.
00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:46.200 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I was a fairly open kid I mean this was the 70s, I mean if.
00:38:47.220 --> 00:38:56.280 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: They had said something to me, I was probably like Okay, you want to go do some go ahead and wouldn't been as big a deal, but the fact that they just did it.
00:38:57.570 --> 00:39:03.120 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: At a party with all these people there and i'm upstairs and they're downstairs screwing around.
00:39:04.650 --> 00:39:06.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It just devastated me.
00:39:07.560 --> 00:39:09.630 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It broke me in a way.
00:39:11.070 --> 00:39:13.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I mean even my girlfriend had said later on that.
00:39:14.850 --> 00:39:25.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: She felt like there was this beautiful crystal goblet and it shattered and no matter what you did it the pieces couldn't be put back together again the way they were, and she was right at the time.
00:39:30.720 --> 00:39:35.160 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because that trust was shattered, I was shattered.
00:39:39.900 --> 00:39:45.720 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I just was like how could they do this to me my best friend and my girlfriend.
00:39:46.980 --> 00:39:51.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: At a party where i'm there with a whole bunch of friends from school.
00:39:52.770 --> 00:39:55.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It was like my worst nightmare.
00:40:03.000 --> 00:40:04.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And for a long time.
00:40:07.350 --> 00:40:12.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: You know that I have girlfriends sure that i've deep relationships know.
00:40:14.130 --> 00:40:25.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I would say I didn't open up my heart again like that for probably close to 10 maybe 15 years.
00:40:31.020 --> 00:40:36.720 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And then I opened my heart and they got broken again and open my heart again and they got broken again and.
00:40:45.450 --> 00:40:46.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And what i've come to learn.
00:40:48.990 --> 00:40:50.250 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And this is why.
00:40:51.930 --> 00:40:54.180 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I say we can never stop doing our own work.
00:40:55.620 --> 00:41:02.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because there's somebody who works with people and work with people in sometimes some very vulnerable situations.
00:41:04.260 --> 00:41:07.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I could have ended up like that other person I mentioned at the beginning.
00:41:09.720 --> 00:41:19.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I could have ended up a predator, I could have ended up bitter and angry and I could be just taking advantage of women, wherever I could.
00:41:21.300 --> 00:41:22.230 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But that's not me.
00:41:23.910 --> 00:41:26.070 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I continue to do my own work.
00:41:27.270 --> 00:41:29.070 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I continue to.
00:41:30.420 --> 00:41:31.350 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: understand.
00:41:33.750 --> 00:41:36.210 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That, even though a heart can be broken.
00:41:37.560 --> 00:41:37.710 It.
00:41:40.140 --> 00:41:41.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It can't be destroyed.
00:41:43.380 --> 00:41:51.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And that, as long as we continue to heal our pains and continue to heal our trauma and continue to do our own work.
00:41:52.770 --> 00:41:55.830 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can continue to be trustworthy.
00:41:58.890 --> 00:42:00.450 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And one of the.
00:42:02.700 --> 00:42:05.130 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: greatest compliments people pay me.
00:42:06.750 --> 00:42:09.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Especially when we're doing our ceremonial work.
00:42:10.920 --> 00:42:12.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: is how safe they feel around me.
00:42:16.230 --> 00:42:23.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because there's so many people out there, doing work that they're not safe to be around there are people out there who.
00:42:24.390 --> 00:42:39.300 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: might be involved in different traditions and different kinds of things like tantra and they are abusing their position and they were abusing their their status, and they were abusing the trust people placed in them.
00:42:40.770 --> 00:42:45.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And this is why trust is the most precious gem.
00:42:46.890 --> 00:42:51.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Why trust is the most precious thing we have.
00:42:53.940 --> 00:42:56.520 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because when we break trust.
00:42:58.350 --> 00:42:59.010 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The way.
00:43:00.120 --> 00:43:02.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: My trust was broken as a kid.
00:43:03.810 --> 00:43:06.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And, and it was my first real heartbreak.
00:43:08.010 --> 00:43:09.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We cause so much pain.
00:43:12.240 --> 00:43:13.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because so much trauma.
00:43:15.240 --> 00:43:16.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we don't even realize it.
00:43:19.620 --> 00:43:22.320 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And having been on the other side of that.
00:43:24.480 --> 00:43:31.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Instead of me becoming bitter and angry and and just wanting to hurt people.
00:43:33.930 --> 00:43:42.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Having experienced such pain myself it just made me say I never want to do that to another person.
00:43:44.670 --> 00:43:49.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I never want to be the cause of that much pain to someone else.
00:43:56.070 --> 00:43:56.910 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so, look.
00:43:58.230 --> 00:44:12.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Do I maintain my trustworthiness this hundred percent of the time all the time throughout my entire life No, of course, not i'm a human being, I mess up sometimes I screw up sometimes absolutely.
00:44:14.760 --> 00:44:34.590 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I do my best not to make it so severe I do my best to clean it up, I do my best to come forward I do my best to do what I can to rebuild that trust and to can to rebuild that trustworthiness, because it is so precious to me.
00:44:37.080 --> 00:44:38.340 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So sometimes.
00:44:39.480 --> 00:44:43.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: These very painful moments in our life.
00:44:46.320 --> 00:44:55.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Are the most valuable lessons for us because we never forget them they live with us throughout our entire life.
00:44:59.340 --> 00:44:59.640 yeah.
00:45:01.290 --> 00:45:07.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And maybe that pain always exists inside of us, maybe it's always there in our heart.
00:45:10.230 --> 00:45:11.850 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But the more we do our work.
00:45:12.960 --> 00:45:14.100 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The more we.
00:45:15.960 --> 00:45:19.590 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Bring consciousness and awareness to that pain.
00:45:22.500 --> 00:45:25.800 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The less, it has to control our actions and our decision.
00:45:30.960 --> 00:45:37.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So yeah trust is really important hope you're getting this all right, one last commercial break.
00:45:39.270 --> 00:45:43.920 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I still haven't told you that the most valuable question and.
00:45:44.970 --> 00:45:46.110 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: i'll get into.
00:45:47.700 --> 00:45:50.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: just finish things up around trust.
00:45:52.590 --> 00:45:53.550 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And why.
00:45:55.830 --> 00:46:01.380 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We need to still trust people, even when they break our trust and why.
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00:48:22.710 --> 00:48:24.180 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and welcome back.
00:48:24.210 --> 00:48:40.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To the conscious consultant our awakening humanity we've been speaking all this hour about trust the importance of trust the value of trust, how it's the most precious thing we have in life and the pain that causes when we break that trust.
00:48:43.320 --> 00:48:58.920 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And here's the thing you know i've been talking a lot about having to do our own work, and in order to maintain our trustworthiness, we really need to bring our pain and sadness and our to our awareness and know what's going on.
00:49:03.000 --> 00:49:10.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And this is why it's important to work with a mentor, this is why it's important to work with with a coach a guide whatever you want to call it.
00:49:12.840 --> 00:49:13.740 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because.
00:49:15.270 --> 00:49:19.650 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Someone who is outside of ourselves can see.
00:49:20.880 --> 00:49:24.990 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: The situation we might be in the moment from a very different perspective.
00:49:26.610 --> 00:49:29.700 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And when we can find someone we can truly trust.
00:49:30.900 --> 00:49:33.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Who won't abuse our trust won't hurt us.
00:49:35.670 --> 00:49:37.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But who can be there for us.
00:49:39.690 --> 00:49:41.760 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It makes going through.
00:49:43.020 --> 00:49:44.700 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: All of these challenges.
00:49:45.750 --> 00:49:49.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So much easier because we have the support of another human being.
00:49:51.570 --> 00:49:52.770 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Now, ultimately.
00:49:54.300 --> 00:50:02.250 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: As we go through life as we go through the experiences that we have, whether they break our heart or not.
00:50:05.280 --> 00:50:07.440 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's all about the lessons we take from it.
00:50:09.690 --> 00:50:10.920 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What did we learn from it.
00:50:12.720 --> 00:50:14.820 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: How did it serve us in some way.
00:50:16.920 --> 00:50:25.170 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And like I just shared you know one particular story that really broke my heart, it was significant to me at the time still significant I guess.
00:50:27.660 --> 00:50:29.070 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because I can still feel the pain.
00:50:36.510 --> 00:50:38.610 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But I am a big believer in.
00:50:40.680 --> 00:50:49.260 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Life happens for us not to us, and that when these kinds of situations happen there's a reason for it.
00:50:51.480 --> 00:50:57.060 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And if we don't let it destroy us make us better angry.
00:50:58.440 --> 00:50:59.340 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: vindictive.
00:51:00.930 --> 00:51:03.570 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: If we use it as an opportunity.
00:51:04.920 --> 00:51:08.550 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: to grow and to learn, it can really serve us.
00:51:11.250 --> 00:51:17.700 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So last night when I got together with with my friends up in Davis California.
00:51:19.320 --> 00:51:20.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And I invited.
00:51:22.230 --> 00:51:32.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Dr Maria namath, who is a wonderful human being a wonderful coach and mentor she runs it coaching academy called ace.
00:51:35.460 --> 00:51:40.500 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Academy for coaching excellence highly recommended if you're a coach go go check it out.
00:51:43.230 --> 00:51:50.970 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we were having a wonderful conversation, and she said, you know what my favorite question is and we were all kind of riveted like what Maria what's your favorite question.
00:51:53.100 --> 00:51:54.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And she said.
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:01.980 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What is the question.
00:52:03.960 --> 00:52:08.400 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That our life is the answer to.
00:52:11.460 --> 00:52:17.640 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And when she said that everyone got silent for a moment, everyone was kind of nodding their head.
00:52:19.230 --> 00:52:21.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that's a really good question.
00:52:23.400 --> 00:52:27.930 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: What is the question that your life is the answer to.
00:52:32.760 --> 00:52:33.420 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:52:36.690 --> 00:52:38.640 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I guess reflecting upon.
00:52:40.230 --> 00:52:40.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: This.
00:52:41.640 --> 00:52:45.030 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: topic today of trust in the story that I shared with you.
00:52:49.590 --> 00:52:55.140 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: One of the questions that my life is the answer for one of them i'm sure there are many more.
00:52:59.250 --> 00:53:04.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: is, how can we learn to trust more even when.
00:53:07.410 --> 00:53:11.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Our trust has been broken and our heart, along with it.
00:53:12.960 --> 00:53:15.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And what i'm here today to tell you is.
00:53:18.420 --> 00:53:21.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Even though you've trusted and that trust has been broken.
00:53:23.400 --> 00:53:24.360 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Even though.
00:53:26.160 --> 00:53:33.270 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Life maybe appears to not be so trustworthy sometimes.
00:53:34.830 --> 00:53:37.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That ultimately it's all a lesson.
00:53:38.310 --> 00:53:41.340 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: it's a lesson in learning to trust ourselves.
00:53:45.450 --> 00:53:47.190 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and learning how to.
00:53:49.080 --> 00:53:53.130 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: use that trust in ourselves more than in other people.
00:53:54.810 --> 00:53:58.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because when we do our work and i'm going to keep coming back to it.
00:53:58.980 --> 00:54:08.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because the only way to stay trustworthy is to continue to do our own work to continue to unravel that that onion peel those layers.
00:54:08.640 --> 00:54:20.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and constantly get to know ourselves better and understand ourselves better and see our motivations and our pains and how we've the stories we've made over the years.
00:54:28.020 --> 00:54:40.290 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: But when we get to know ourselves so well and know our pains so well that we can trust ourselves with other people's trust and that's a big one.
00:54:42.630 --> 00:54:46.260 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we can trust ourselves with other people's trust.
00:54:47.850 --> 00:54:49.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Then we're truly trustworthy.
00:54:51.240 --> 00:54:53.400 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Then we know.
00:54:56.070 --> 00:54:57.810 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That, no matter what happens.
00:55:00.510 --> 00:55:02.940 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: That we will cherish that trust.
00:55:05.040 --> 00:55:09.000 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that we will do everything we can to preserve that trust.
00:55:10.170 --> 00:55:12.360 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And the other person will know.
00:55:13.380 --> 00:55:16.050 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: how important we consider their trust.
00:55:21.120 --> 00:55:22.380 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because we've learned.
00:55:23.700 --> 00:55:27.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: that trust is so much more precious.
00:55:28.680 --> 00:55:30.600 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: than any of our possessions.
00:55:33.210 --> 00:55:40.680 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Because even if we lose everything if people still trust us, we can rebuild if people trust us.
00:55:41.760 --> 00:55:52.620 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can create a best selling book if people trust us, we can have a number one rated show if people trust us, we can build up a business.
00:55:55.950 --> 00:55:57.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When people trust us.
00:55:58.770 --> 00:55:59.130 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and
00:56:00.270 --> 00:56:02.730 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can be a real force for good in the world.
00:56:04.350 --> 00:56:16.200 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: We can also be very destructive for us if we abuse that trust if we misuse that trust, if we take that trust and we don't hold it in such high esteem.
00:56:17.460 --> 00:56:19.350 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we twist the truth.
00:56:21.300 --> 00:56:25.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And we make it all about us not about the people we serve.
00:56:29.190 --> 00:56:36.510 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: When we take that trust and use it for our own ego gratification yeah we can be very destructive force in the world.
00:56:38.580 --> 00:56:41.640 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And so i'd like to leave you with this question.
00:56:46.890 --> 00:56:52.410 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Do the people you trust in this life deserve your trust truly deserve your trust.
00:56:56.040 --> 00:57:04.200 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And how can we trust ourselves rather than placing our trust in other people, maybe even just a little bit.
00:57:06.150 --> 00:57:08.790 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Trust ourselves some little bit more just others.
00:57:09.960 --> 00:57:10.890 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: To be humans.
00:57:12.390 --> 00:57:13.710 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: because none of us are perfect.
00:57:15.390 --> 00:57:18.150 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: None of us get everything right all the time.
00:57:20.700 --> 00:57:21.900 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: myself included.
00:57:25.080 --> 00:57:33.330 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I do my best to be trustworthy I do my best to bring you trustworthy guests trustworthy stories week after week.
00:57:35.220 --> 00:57:40.020 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: I hope, something in my story today is touched you I made you think.
00:57:41.970 --> 00:57:46.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: helped you to maybe view trust in a in a slightly more precious manner.
00:57:47.880 --> 00:57:53.490 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: If you got some value out of this week's show, please share with your friends, think about it.
00:57:54.570 --> 00:57:56.310 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: really take it in.
00:57:58.470 --> 00:57:59.430 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: and think about.
00:58:00.540 --> 00:58:02.460 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: How do you treat trust.
00:58:04.470 --> 00:58:12.540 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And what can you do to be even more trustworthy than you already are, and how can you use that trust to make this world a better place.
00:58:14.880 --> 00:58:30.480 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: So thank you all, thank you for staying with the, thank you for tuning in even if you're listening on the replay and you didn't get a chance to listen live, I appreciate you I appreciate you sticking with me and I appreciate you listening to the station.
00:58:33.390 --> 00:58:44.880 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: don't forget if you missed any part of today's show you can always catch the replay on talk radio dot nyc you can find us on all the major podcasting platforms apple Google stitcher spotify.
00:58:45.180 --> 00:58:54.780 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Pandora I heart radio where everywhere, wherever you're used to getting podcasts do a search for the conscious consultant hour, if you could leave us a rating, that would be great.
00:58:55.620 --> 00:59:04.530 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: It helps us to be more visible, if you can give us a review on on apple podcasts and give us a high rating, that would be wonderful.
00:59:05.610 --> 00:59:17.730 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Thank you all for tuning in remember coming up at five o'clock today it's Eastern time it's it's frank Harrison and his fifth show on the network and graduations frank and coming up tomorrow it's.
00:59:18.240 --> 00:59:28.470 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: philanthropy and focus and always Friday two wonderful business shows and Monday, make sure to catch Sandra shows the edge of every day, a wonderful wonderful show.
00:59:28.860 --> 00:59:38.610 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: And, of course, on a Tuesday shows or Wednesday shows, and all the shows on Thursdays, I hope you catch carolyn show the dismantle racism before me, she just such a wonderful show.
00:59:39.000 --> 00:59:48.690 Sam Liebowitz | The Conscious Consultant: Thank you all for tuning in I appreciate you I hold your trust very preciously and very dearly and we will talk to you next week.
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