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Monday, April 5, 2021
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Facebook Live Video from 2021/04/05 - Not One But Two - Our Common Thread

 
Facebook Live Video from 2021/04/05 - Not One But Two - Our Common Thread

 

2021/04/05 - Not One But Two - Our Common Thread

[NEW EPISODE] Not One But Two - Our Common Thread

Don't we love when things go our way, situations fall right into place giving us exactly what we want when we want it--- no potential interference from another? We can sometimes feel a desire to approach our life, with all its wonder, --alone; only to discover that it is so much richer shared with the other.

Join Dr. G. Dau and Judi Miller as they come together exploring life's most important questions finding the common thread that unites us all.


Tune in for this philosophical conversation at TalkRadio.nyc or watch the Facebook Livestream by clicking here.


Show Notes

Segment 1

Dr. Georgeann starts tonight’s show off by introducing the show’s new co-host, Judi Miller. The two start off with a story that is a metaphor for God’s constant presence. Dr. Georgeann reads a poem about how we are all connected to one common thread and discusses the meaning it took on for her. Judi goes on to discuss how being on the same thread, we still have free will and are unified by love. Judi asks Dr. G. what the thread means to her. The two talk about how we are shaped by our childhood, and how there were other outside factors affecting the interactions we had with others. They move on to a discussion of love and what it means to love.

Segment 2

Dr. Georgeann brings up the reason the show started, talking about how the topics the show covers are often overlooked by society. Life can be difficult sometimes, the two hosts discuss why this is and how we can transcend our problems, living for a higher purpose. They go on to talk about the importance of awareness and the gap between stimulus and response. Dr. Georgeann calls back to the point about childhood, diving deeper into how our experiences up to the ages of 5 to 7 shape how we react to stimuli throughout our life. Judi and Dr. Georgeann talks about the idea that we can be impacted by events in our life without realizing and then explain the topic of epigenetics. Epigenetics is the idea that we can inherit the past traumas of family members.

Segment 3

Only 10% of our life is lived consciously, the other 90% is unconscious. Dr. G. draws a comparison to a glacier, with 90% of the ice being underwater. She continues on to discuss the difficulty a lack of control can bring to our lives. Judi brings up the question often asked, “if we are all made in the lord’s name, why do bad things happen to us?”, and the two share their takes on the question. We are all the creators of our own lives, but we project outward what we don’t want to see. When we lack a sense of identity, we look to our possessions to define ourselves, which can make us feel less than. This is only a feeling though, we are not less than. Judi shares another analogy about water, the analogy represents how we are all part of the creator. The two talk about the value we receive from sharing love, and how giving love is not something to be announced, but something that adds value to our life.

Segment 4

Coming back from the break, the two hosts move on to the topic of gratitude and how it can connect us to God. Dr. G. believes that love is the answer, even when she doesn’t feel loving, she knows that she is the creator of her life and every outcome in her life is a result of something she’s done. Judi agrees on the importance of gratitude and continues on to talk about how we often lose ourselves in our lives and don’t take time to do things we enjoy. Every night she looks for something she can channel her love into. Judi talks about truths in her life and how realising them has impacted her life. The two move on from these truths to talk about how they share many of the same beliefs but arrived at them in different ways. Dr. Georgeann then shares daily rituals she practices everyday that may help listeners in their daily lives. A practice shared by Judi is the slowing down of her mind, through prayer, nature, and other activities that give her reference. Dr. G. ends tonight’s episode in prayer.


Transcript

00:00:38.550 --> 00:00:50.040 Georgeann Dau: hi good evening so great to be back with all of you for some reason it feels like a while, since i've been here with you, I guess, I I guess I miss everyone and doing this.

00:00:50.790 --> 00:01:07.140 Georgeann Dau: So a lot of exciting things and I want to let you know that I I we have competition tonight, because I think it's the first game that the mets are playing.

00:01:08.790 --> 00:01:21.900 Georgeann Dau: So i'm hoping that everyone is going to be here with me tonight actually it's in us so little bit of a miracle actually a big miracle, and I just like to say it, because.

00:01:22.410 --> 00:01:45.660 Georgeann Dau: You know that our focus here is to recognize all that inside of us and what we're about and what we're journeying through into meeting the depth of who we are so For those of you just tuning in i'm Dr George and when this is a journey through into awareness.

00:01:46.980 --> 00:01:52.260 Georgeann Dau: So we're always journeying and we need to journey through.

00:01:53.370 --> 00:02:00.780 Georgeann Dau: A lot of different things to become and recognize that we're already whole and we're already enough.

00:02:01.590 --> 00:02:09.870 Georgeann Dau: And from my experience as a psychoanalyst and spiritual director many times we don't feel that way and we don't know that.

00:02:10.800 --> 00:02:23.730 Georgeann Dau: So I was thinking to myself and I brought to prayer that I actually would like a Co host to be with me and I met an incredible woman.

00:02:24.240 --> 00:02:38.610 Georgeann Dau: She honored me for saying yes to be on the show, and then I was on it again God brought us together and she said yes to being the Co host with me here.

00:02:39.240 --> 00:03:01.080 Georgeann Dau: And i'm just so grateful so you'll be seeing her with me or alone every week on a journey through into awareness and her name is Judy Miller Judy Thank you so much i'm so happy we're doing this together, and we are one and that's why the name of the show is not one, but so.

00:03:02.250 --> 00:03:05.040 Georgeann Dau: And then you said something interesting about that right.

00:03:06.210 --> 00:03:08.670 Judi Miller: I basically said there's actually only one of us here.

00:03:08.970 --> 00:03:32.280 Georgeann Dau: that's right that's right because we are just always with God and we're all one anyway so um we decided that we would like to begin with a a poem tonight, but before we do i'm speaking of God and not to but one, not one, but two.

00:03:34.350 --> 00:03:56.340 Georgeann Dau: Because we're always looking for God and like Judy just referenced that we are absolutely one all the time we're inseparable from God and there's a great little story that if you don't feel connected, maybe you could think of this because it's really sweet and it's fun so.

00:03:57.480 --> 00:03:59.040 Georgeann Dau: A little fish was swimming.

00:04:00.060 --> 00:04:12.000 Georgeann Dau: In the ocean and it felt very lost and it said Oh, my goodness, I don't know where I am what is this word what is this, am I.

00:04:12.600 --> 00:04:34.410 Georgeann Dau: I need to find the water, where is the water, so we saw a big fish walking walking swimming by and he he shaved goes up to the big fish and says skews me, can you please tell me where the water is and the big fish looks at him.

00:04:35.460 --> 00:04:38.640 Judi Miller: And says oh this This must be my cue.

00:04:40.080 --> 00:04:51.030 Judi Miller: I love your voice and I love the story, so the big fishes to the little fish, you are in the water, this is the ocean, it is everywhere and it's around you yes.

00:04:52.140 --> 00:04:54.510 Georgeann Dau: it's we actually practice this.

00:04:55.650 --> 00:05:00.930 Judi Miller: But I I can't stop laughing because I love it George and George chance fish boys and the story.

00:05:02.220 --> 00:05:12.690 Georgeann Dau: So the point is that we are never alone, we are never with good without God God is all around us it's inseparable and.

00:05:13.980 --> 00:05:24.810 Georgeann Dau: it's like a fish looking for the water it's everywhere, the fishes in it, and we are in God and God is in us and if any of you have alexa at home.

00:05:25.860 --> 00:05:36.570 Georgeann Dau: If you can hear that, in the background, it means that the alexa is going off to set a time frame for me, so I apologize, excuse me alexa stop.

00:05:37.800 --> 00:05:39.480 Georgeann Dau: And she'll stop now, thank you.

00:05:40.560 --> 00:05:48.300 Georgeann Dau: So we'd like to read a poem tonight and i'm going to read it.

00:05:49.590 --> 00:06:01.920 Georgeann Dau: We decided, I would be the reader and the poem is by William Stafford it's actually a favorite poet of mine and it's called the way it is.

00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:11.280 Georgeann Dau: there's a thread you follow it goes a month things that change but it doesn't change.

00:06:12.300 --> 00:06:14.940 Georgeann Dau: people wonder about what you're pursuing.

00:06:16.230 --> 00:06:18.630 Georgeann Dau: You have to explain about the thread.

00:06:19.920 --> 00:06:22.260 Georgeann Dau: But it is hard for others to see.

00:06:23.490 --> 00:06:41.520 Georgeann Dau: While you hold it, you can get lost tragedies happen people get hurt or die, and you suffer and get old nothing you can do can stop time unfolding.

00:06:42.750 --> 00:06:46.860 Georgeann Dau: You just don't ever let go of the thread.

00:06:48.300 --> 00:06:56.970 Georgeann Dau: And I love that so much because we are all connected to one thread.

00:06:58.110 --> 00:07:16.080 Georgeann Dau: And it supports us in life, it holds us in life, it is like the fish looking for the water, it is us always seeking for God we are seeking we are thirsting and that's what it spoke to me about.

00:07:17.130 --> 00:07:21.660 Judi Miller: hmm that's a beautiful beautiful poem George ham, thank you for sharing man, thank you.

00:07:21.690 --> 00:07:25.500 Georgeann Dau: Judy, for you know, making it Okay, that we do this together.

00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:31.350 Georgeann Dau: yeah So what is the, what do you think about the thread, what do you think about the ball.

00:07:32.400 --> 00:07:41.160 Judi Miller: I love it and I see it, really, I see the thread really kind of into buckets, so we are the creator were made in the image and likeness of the Creator.

00:07:41.790 --> 00:07:51.300 Judi Miller: So our job and our purpose here is to expand into create and we actually create all of the experiences in our life so events are going to happen to everyone.

00:07:51.660 --> 00:08:01.380 Judi Miller: But it's our choice it's our free will, in terms of how we're actually going to experience those events do we come from a place of love do we come from a place of hatred.

00:08:01.920 --> 00:08:11.460 Judi Miller: Do we come from a place of expansion or contraction so we actually design and create our life experiences and then the other part of it.

00:08:11.820 --> 00:08:20.400 Judi Miller: You know, because we are the Creator, the Creator is divine love, so the essence of who we are, is love and that's what unifies us.

00:08:20.850 --> 00:08:31.500 Judi Miller: So when we judge and when we label people in situations we actually create a barrier with us in the other person, but it also creates a barrier between us and the Creator.

00:08:32.520 --> 00:08:39.720 Georgeann Dau: love that yes, that is just perfectly said I love it so much Judy.

00:08:40.110 --> 00:08:44.610 Judi Miller: How about you how about you George and what is thread thread that unites us together.

00:08:44.670 --> 00:08:56.970 Georgeann Dau: Yes, I think that what you said, is exactly what is so for me um you know we are made in the image and likeness of God and we co create with God.

00:08:57.540 --> 00:09:13.920 Georgeann Dau: As we pay attention to the movement of that higher place in us and what can thwart that or our very early experiences and how we were made to feel about them.

00:09:14.520 --> 00:09:25.560 Georgeann Dau: How we were made to feel around our early years creates perceptions, those of you listening that tune in every week you've heard me say this.

00:09:25.980 --> 00:09:36.210 Georgeann Dau: and Judy and I over the many weeks we'll be talking a lot about this, it creates perceptions, it creates distortions that we view life from.

00:09:36.720 --> 00:09:58.890 Georgeann Dau: So we many times can begin to react from what's old instead of choose on how to act exactly what God was saying, choose on how to act and be in the face of whatever life hands us, we were given the free will to be able to discern.

00:09:59.910 --> 00:10:09.450 Georgeann Dau: That place in us and choose how we want to show up and the kind of life, we want, we absolutely have free will to choose that.

00:10:11.850 --> 00:10:17.370 Judi Miller: And you know it's interesting what you say, George and so many of our stories we get from our childhood.

00:10:17.850 --> 00:10:23.190 Judi Miller: You know, because someone said something our parents did something we were unworthy we were unlovable.

00:10:23.640 --> 00:10:35.790 Judi Miller: But now that we're older, we can take a different perspective, what if those people or our parents couldn't say that they left us, yes it wasn't the fact that we were unlovable maybe they couldn't say it yes.

00:10:36.090 --> 00:10:48.570 Georgeann Dau: And if they couldn't say it many times Judy I think you might agree that it was because they weren't given it and they never worked it through to be able to then.

00:10:49.410 --> 00:11:01.080 Georgeann Dau: be able to offer it to their child doesn't make them bad people know there's you know the evolution of humanity, because God continues to create what God created.

00:11:01.470 --> 00:11:15.240 Georgeann Dau: God is a god of creation and continues to create everything, and we are to expand ourselves, and you know take on that creation with God and create not only for our own lives.

00:11:15.930 --> 00:11:34.110 Georgeann Dau: But to work with God to create continue to create for and with one another because life isn't just about me not about me it's about me as a servant to Judy to all of you listening.

00:11:35.370 --> 00:11:36.300 Georgeann Dau: But do you Thank you.

00:11:36.870 --> 00:11:54.690 Judi Miller: I love that I absolutely love that and I believe we are given opportunities in every moment to choose or find love and that's part of our purpose to always find and choose love and I think we continue to have those experiences over and over again until we learn to choose love yes.

00:11:55.080 --> 00:12:04.650 Georgeann Dau: And many yes, I love that and many times those experiences over and over again and it's like what else is like call it repeating because we're all going to repeat once a week.

00:12:05.040 --> 00:12:18.750 Georgeann Dau: Until we get it, and what are we getting what it means to love and it can feel like suffering because we come up against places that are really uncomfortable and.

00:12:20.040 --> 00:12:22.170 Georgeann Dau: We can feel judged and.

00:12:23.490 --> 00:12:32.370 Georgeann Dau: Whatever i'm paying attention to, we need to take a break momentarily but um whatever it is, however, we're treated.

00:12:33.090 --> 00:12:51.480 Georgeann Dau: Over time, we need to grow and expand, so that we can come from love towards that, because no one or towards that person, no one can make us feel any thing we can only feel and experience what's already in here.

00:12:52.770 --> 00:12:53.790 Georgeann Dau: And when we.

00:12:55.500 --> 00:12:57.330 Georgeann Dau: will talk we'll talk about that, when we.

00:12:59.010 --> 00:13:05.490 Georgeann Dau: Were gonna take a quick break and i'm here with my partner Judy Miller we'll be right back.

00:16:09.960 --> 00:16:12.600 Judi Miller: So, Georgia and I loved what you said before the break.

00:16:13.680 --> 00:16:25.710 Judi Miller: I believe that when we feel contraction in our bodies and we experienced those contracted moments it's the universe in our infinite intelligence telling us that there's something that we hold that needs to be healed.

00:16:27.960 --> 00:16:30.480 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely I love that and.

00:16:32.520 --> 00:16:35.250 Georgeann Dau: When we don't listen to the contractions over time.

00:16:36.360 --> 00:16:39.270 Georgeann Dau: that's how I believe disease begins.

00:16:39.960 --> 00:16:40.590 Judi Miller: I agree with you.

00:16:41.280 --> 00:16:46.470 Georgeann Dau: That constant contraction over time, creates.

00:16:48.450 --> 00:16:53.220 Georgeann Dau: An environment where our body is very clear that we're not listening.

00:16:53.820 --> 00:16:54.900 Georgeann Dau: we're not listening to.

00:16:55.620 --> 00:17:01.080 Georgeann Dau: And you know it's interesting because what we're talking about here, I don't know I could be wrong, but.

00:17:02.250 --> 00:17:13.680 Georgeann Dau: Because I do this for you know living and I know you do too, so you know very blessed to have this work that we love, but Aside from that, I think what goes on in our show.

00:17:15.540 --> 00:17:25.350 Georgeann Dau: People don't really and again, all of you, please, you know I don't mean to be insulting at all, but I think what's discussed here is unusual.

00:17:25.980 --> 00:17:36.630 Georgeann Dau: I don't think it's spoken a lot spoken about a lot in the world and that's one of the reasons why I wanted to create this hour every week and Judy also.

00:17:37.050 --> 00:17:50.940 Georgeann Dau: Because we really do care about you, we care about the collective consciousness, which is the way all of us think all of us believe all of us live and had to take care of one another in the Center of that you know.

00:17:52.260 --> 00:17:56.070 Georgeann Dau: You know, like what, why are we here what's our life purpose.

00:17:57.690 --> 00:18:03.570 Georgeann Dau: You know, for me, I think it's to learn to love to learn to love and our egos.

00:18:04.800 --> 00:18:13.560 Georgeann Dau: go crazy with that when we're not getting our way because there's a there's a child and each of us that did not get its basic needs met.

00:18:14.430 --> 00:18:34.350 Georgeann Dau: And we all have this child in us and that wants what it wants, when it wants us and you know some to a greater or lesser degree, and you know we really cold to learn to love, in spite of the feelings we have around that because our life is not about myself.

00:18:34.830 --> 00:18:42.630 Judi Miller: mm hmm so church and why does life feel difficult, sometimes, then why do we feel this contraction in this difficulty, to be able to love.

00:18:44.850 --> 00:18:48.240 Georgeann Dau: I think, very much Judy and you and I have talked about it that it's.

00:18:50.460 --> 00:19:00.030 Georgeann Dau: it's when we feel out of control, where we're not able to control person or a situation we want to be heard, we want.

00:19:01.080 --> 00:19:08.220 Georgeann Dau: People to agree with us, we want people to go along with our way of thinking or way of doing things.

00:19:09.900 --> 00:19:16.650 Georgeann Dau: And when we're not able to do that, we feel, out of control, and we feel like life is incredibly difficult.

00:19:17.820 --> 00:19:26.130 Georgeann Dau: You know I certainly haven't you know by far from perfect, I mean I have plenty of things that i'm always working on and that's huge because.

00:19:26.820 --> 00:19:44.640 Georgeann Dau: We all have this we're all human, but the big differences, those of us that know that we had these pieces, that we need to pray over address work with so that we can transcend them and become a living out of a higher consciousness in a higher purpose.

00:19:45.720 --> 00:19:49.860 Judi Miller: And I agree with you so much, you know so many people actually live on autopilot.

00:19:50.340 --> 00:20:04.920 Judi Miller: That we have a choice we have free will, so between stimulus and response there's that gap, and in that gap we actually get to decide, so what is the stories and the labels and judgments that we're creating and that actually creates our experience in life.

00:20:06.780 --> 00:20:09.210 Georgeann Dau: Yes, absolutely and.

00:20:10.230 --> 00:20:28.140 Georgeann Dau: that's why you know, the first the first very first piece to transcendence is awareness awareness awareness awareness awareness, we have to become aware of what it is inside of us, but.

00:20:29.460 --> 00:20:50.790 Georgeann Dau: we're the needs weren't met what's going on in here Why am I having this feeling, instead of just reacting to the feeling to pause and say what Why am I Why am I Why am I angry at that driver because he got ahead of me in the lane or oh yeah.

00:20:51.960 --> 00:21:02.280 Judi Miller: And you know you're so right because that event that triggers that emotion is not the cause of that emotion it's probably something from when we were younger, yes, something that we observed.

00:21:02.370 --> 00:21:19.950 Georgeann Dau: Yes, absolutely and again from intrauterine to age, five, seven, whatever we experienced, however, we were made to feel in the Center of the experience sets a recording if you will.

00:21:21.240 --> 00:21:30.750 Georgeann Dau: Of sort of like an archive that if anything in our contemporary life in the present feel somewhat familiar.

00:21:32.370 --> 00:21:38.280 Georgeann Dau: our minds go through this archive very, very quickly and we react.

00:21:39.420 --> 00:22:01.110 Georgeann Dau: In the way we did way back here because there's a similarity in feeling and feeling it doesn't have to be a similarity in in the event, whatever the event is no contemporary life is triggering a feeling that lives in here and it's old.

00:22:01.680 --> 00:22:04.650 Judi Miller: it's energetic it's energetically similar similar.

00:22:04.890 --> 00:22:23.160 Georgeann Dau: yeah I love that that's great yes it's energetically similar and we know when it's when it's pre talking I call we know when it's old if we can pause and recognize that our feeling or our desire to re act is.

00:22:26.070 --> 00:22:28.290 Georgeann Dau: sort of over inflated.

00:22:32.910 --> 00:22:55.680 Georgeann Dau: To which the contemporary event is is happening so, in other words, and a contemporary contemporary event is happening and i'm having all these deep deep feelings that when I really can pause and look at it it's it's distorted it's it's I can't grasp the word right now, it is.

00:22:57.420 --> 00:23:00.960 Georgeann Dau: It is not, it is not the feeling.

00:23:02.100 --> 00:23:21.420 Georgeann Dau: It is not the feeling really that has anything to do with now i'm losing it I just i'm missing a missing a word here, because what we're talking about so incredibly deep it's hard to find words because we're talking about the way the unconscious functions.

00:23:21.780 --> 00:23:43.380 Georgeann Dau: None of this goes unconsciously, so if anything is happening that has a deep feeling is our feeling is inappropriate for whatever the contemporary action is called is happening in that event.

00:23:44.640 --> 00:23:47.790 Georgeann Dau: I left to vote in an appropriate but i'm not gonna waste any more.

00:23:48.150 --> 00:23:50.430 Judi Miller: But, similar to what you were saying before so.

00:23:50.550 --> 00:24:05.550 Judi Miller: When we had that younger experience in our life it distorts our ability to see the world appropriately it causes an energetic block in our energetic field and just to describe it just very simply, George and if you were to wear pink glasses, everything would look pink.

00:24:05.940 --> 00:24:08.790 Judi Miller: So when we have that distortion or that contraction in our.

00:24:08.790 --> 00:24:17.070 Judi Miller: Body it distorts or a way it distorts our way that we perceive the world in the way that we interact in the world, so that's why I think you know.

00:24:17.550 --> 00:24:24.570 Judi Miller: When I have a contraction Thank you, thank you for showing me what I need to heal what I need to release, but you know.

00:24:25.440 --> 00:24:40.410 Judi Miller: You you brought up a great point before also the science of epigenetics tells us that we could actually inherit some of this pain this trauma these labels these judgments that we carry throughout our lives and we don't even know where they come from, yes.

00:24:40.500 --> 00:24:56.010 Georgeann Dau: And because because of the epigenetics and that research, I think it started in 1968 somewhere around there, even though it's just it sounds new um that we can we can have an impact on it just because its genetic doesn't mean it's fixed in stone.

00:24:56.310 --> 00:24:56.850 Georgeann Dau: We can have an.

00:24:56.880 --> 00:25:03.180 Georgeann Dau: impact by how we eat, how we change our perceptions, but it all takes work right.

00:25:03.540 --> 00:25:05.700 Georgeann Dau: we're not going to have a strong muscle.

00:25:06.210 --> 00:25:10.830 Georgeann Dau: If we don't do physical activity, it will takes work and it all takes.

00:25:12.330 --> 00:25:16.260 Georgeann Dau: Willingness willingness to grow willingness to change.

00:25:16.410 --> 00:25:24.000 Judi Miller: mm hmm and what I love about the science of epigenetics is it shows us that not only do we inherit physical characteristics from our parents.

00:25:24.300 --> 00:25:33.240 Judi Miller: We could actually inherit the pain and the trauma and the contractions that they've experienced they've shown it with Holocaust survivors they've recently done experiments with mice.

00:25:33.540 --> 00:25:37.530 Judi Miller: Where they actually introduced the smell of cherry blossoms and then zap the MICE on the feet.

00:25:38.130 --> 00:25:44.370 Judi Miller: But what happens is that the MICE his offspring, and their offspring, have the same pain and terror in their bodies.

00:25:44.910 --> 00:25:54.630 Judi Miller: So George and what I found amazing on my journey is that many people, many scientists believe that babies female babies are born with two to 3 million of their reproductive exit birth.

00:25:55.170 --> 00:26:02.040 Judi Miller: So for much of your mother's young life, you are actually experiencing the same traumas and triumphs that she did.

00:26:02.430 --> 00:26:20.550 Georgeann Dau: Yes, isn't that amazing yes Judy I love that absolutely right, and you know, in the contemporary life of the mother, with the with the fetus in the womb, you know growing the baby um whatever was going on in the mother's nervous system that child inherits.

00:26:22.740 --> 00:26:41.340 Georgeann Dau: You know, there are many, many documentation on this, where a woman was a cellist and she used to play the cello when she was pregnant with the child and and the boy grew up to be a famous cellist there are many, many stories like this certainly also with my patients.

00:26:41.730 --> 00:26:42.030 Judi Miller: know.

00:26:42.060 --> 00:26:49.260 Georgeann Dau: I have a God daughter that anyway, blah blah blah um there are many, many reasons for this, and many.

00:26:51.150 --> 00:26:53.370 Georgeann Dau: it's all documented, you know this is.

00:26:53.700 --> 00:27:01.410 Judi Miller: And it's something that i've gone through personally so i've inherited the trauma that my mother went through that I didn't even know existed until recently.

00:27:01.770 --> 00:27:09.990 Judi Miller: So so much science has shown that we could actually inherit that trauma, but once we realize that it gives us the opportunity to let go of it.

00:27:11.070 --> 00:27:11.340 Georgeann Dau: So.

00:27:12.810 --> 00:27:21.060 Judi Miller: We no longer have to own it so we're actually going to take a quick break and then, when we come back we're going to have and continue our discussion on these great topics that Thank you.

00:27:21.390 --> 00:27:28.170 Georgeann Dau: Great Thank you we'll be right back thanks for joining us tonight, listening to talk radio and my.

00:30:15.810 --> 00:30:25.440 Georgeann Dau: Welcome back to a journey through with Judy Miller and Dr George and doubt and I thought of the word, you know that it was going to bother me Judy right the whole time.

00:30:25.800 --> 00:30:26.460 Judi Miller: I have some.

00:30:27.180 --> 00:30:45.540 Georgeann Dau: When we are experiencing, you know contemporary life, a situation and we're starting to have exaggerated feelings, the really strong feelings that feel out of proportion, for what the event is.

00:30:46.800 --> 00:31:10.350 Georgeann Dau: We know that it is pre talking, we know that it's old when I say P pre talk, you could be our mothers, because we all carry your parents and live life we're not aware of any of this it's unconscious only 10% of our life is lived consciously the other 90% is.

00:31:11.580 --> 00:31:15.480 Georgeann Dau: unconscious so if we're going to compare life to a glacier.

00:31:18.420 --> 00:31:24.780 Georgeann Dau: 90% of it is underwater 10% is floating on top of the waters.

00:31:26.790 --> 00:31:38.160 Georgeann Dau: And it's very hard, because we're not aware of it, and most people think Oh, this is such nonsense, when I speak about it, because this is, this is our favorite topic right Judy and I.

00:31:39.030 --> 00:31:52.800 Georgeann Dau: ponder the universe right so so that's why I think life can feel difficult God is that we can't control it, things are not going our way we can't control the person I know that's many times, why relationships don't work well.

00:31:54.420 --> 00:32:03.960 Georgeann Dau: Each party is trying to control you don't believe, like I do your role, what do you mean i'm wrong why don't you do this, why don't you believe, like like I do.

00:32:05.550 --> 00:32:16.860 Judi Miller: Right, I agree, I agree, and you know George and one of the things that we get asked often is if we're made in the image and likeness of the Creator, why do bad things happen.

00:32:19.140 --> 00:32:20.400 Georgeann Dau: What do you think about that.

00:32:21.690 --> 00:32:24.540 Georgeann Dau: that's a question that most people really angle.

00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:32.580 Judi Miller: yeah you know, I believe that everything in heaven is perfect and we can experience our perfection until we experience the opposite.

00:32:32.850 --> 00:32:44.250 Judi Miller: So we actually come to earth to experience everything the good the bad the up the down the light the dark, but just to make it very practical for people, I believe that in the contrast we get clarity.

00:32:45.060 --> 00:32:53.100 Judi Miller: So when things happen in life, because things will happen in life we get really clear in that contrast what we want and don't want.

00:32:53.910 --> 00:33:03.450 Judi Miller: In that contrast we then create because we said we're creators right we're the creators of our lives, so the contrast creates the clarity and from the clarity.

00:33:03.720 --> 00:33:14.610 Judi Miller: We create we create laws to protect us from tragedies that have happened we create inventions to make our lives easier and we create the life we desire.

00:33:16.050 --> 00:33:21.960 Judi Miller: So I believe that's really part of it contrast creates clarity and clarity creates creates.

00:33:22.470 --> 00:33:25.080 Georgeann Dau: Yes, yeah I love that.

00:33:26.760 --> 00:33:35.940 Georgeann Dau: You know, I think that if we were to look at and I love everything you say Judy, but I think that if we were to look at.

00:33:37.290 --> 00:33:42.450 Georgeann Dau: The globe and why So what do we call a bad thing.

00:33:44.190 --> 00:33:47.190 Georgeann Dau: Things that are hurtful things that or.

00:33:48.720 --> 00:34:03.690 Georgeann Dau: That we might look at and say this shouldn't happen this person shouldn't be hungry this person shouldn't have gotten hit with stabbed or i'm again a lack of awareness we're inside of us.

00:34:05.130 --> 00:34:08.820 Georgeann Dau: What we're carrying in the unconscious.

00:34:10.650 --> 00:34:12.390 Georgeann Dau: And when not awaken to.

00:34:14.040 --> 00:34:23.070 Georgeann Dau: What we don't want to see in ourselves, we project outward so when we're not looking within because it's an inner journey.

00:34:23.520 --> 00:34:31.320 Georgeann Dau: that's why we have this this show this is why Sam does this work, all of us that are involved with this healing work.

00:34:32.070 --> 00:34:44.070 Georgeann Dau: We are not if we're not doing our own work, what we don't want to see we projected out and we go to make it the other person, you did this to me so i'm going to do this to you.

00:34:45.420 --> 00:34:59.670 Georgeann Dau: um you didn't give me this so i'm going to steal from you, and again it's the level of consciousness and there's enough in the world for everyone to be fed this shouldn't be any hunger in the world.

00:35:00.060 --> 00:35:10.260 Judi Miller: hmm I agree with you, George and I, I think you said it so beautifully because our outer world that we experience is just a reflection of everything that we hold in ourselves.

00:35:10.860 --> 00:35:20.640 Judi Miller: And, and I agree with you there's so much abundance in the world, but sometimes we come from a place of flak there is more than enough to take care of everyone.

00:35:22.110 --> 00:35:30.540 Georgeann Dau: And I think that people that have less you know I certainly I was not brought up you know with wealth.

00:35:31.650 --> 00:35:33.690 Georgeann Dau: In any stretch of the imagination.

00:35:34.770 --> 00:35:36.900 Georgeann Dau: But you know in today's world.

00:35:38.250 --> 00:35:44.460 Georgeann Dau: When you turn on the TV, everything is a is either sexualized or.

00:35:46.290 --> 00:35:54.990 Georgeann Dau: Is a about you know consumerism so you turn it on it's about you know you're going to be this people that don't have a strong sense of identity.

00:35:55.830 --> 00:36:02.400 Georgeann Dau: um they look to define themselves by what they own what they have.

00:36:03.000 --> 00:36:12.690 Georgeann Dau: And you just turn the TV on and it shows everyone having all these things, and you can buy this and you can have this you could, and when you don't have access to that.

00:36:13.230 --> 00:36:23.520 Georgeann Dau: It would be it, it would be normal for many people to feel less than to feel less that they're not less than or to feel a little jealous.

00:36:24.180 --> 00:36:37.410 Georgeann Dau: And they strike out and they steal and they want what other people have, and you know, on and on, it goes that's why for me i've given my life to this work.

00:36:37.950 --> 00:36:53.460 Georgeann Dau: it's about awareness it's about waking up you know we're all one like you started the show with tonight we're all one, what is this with Bridget is why we're all one I don't care if the green blue orange black white.

00:36:55.170 --> 00:37:12.450 Judi Miller: And I loved your fish story so there's another water analogy if we wanted us to have fame so the lane late Dr Wayne Dyer basically he said, if you took a cup of water, out of the ocean what's in the cup is still the ocean love it.

00:37:12.990 --> 00:37:19.380 Judi Miller: as just an analogy for all of us if we're from the ocean we're from the creator we're all part of the crater.

00:37:21.090 --> 00:37:38.610 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely mm hmm and why is it that some of us can know that and some of us cannot, and even if we were to say all of us on some level, maybe don't know it 1,000,000,000% maybe we all struggle, a tad.

00:37:41.910 --> 00:37:49.080 Georgeann Dau: Why is it that some people don't get it at all, no criticism to anyone, but why, why does it have to be this way.

00:37:50.820 --> 00:37:59.070 Judi Miller: I think it's something that you said earlier, so many of us look for love outside of ourselves where the answer is to really find love within ourselves.

00:37:59.220 --> 00:38:11.400 Georgeann Dau: So, like when if a patient says to me, you know I don't feel loved I really feel I get that we can all feel that way Okay, but you know you go give love.

00:38:12.570 --> 00:38:17.640 Georgeann Dau: If you don't feel love go give love go donate some time go.

00:38:19.380 --> 00:38:35.550 Georgeann Dau: Whatever you want to do donate money go say hello to someone or a cup of coffee and give the waitress a big smile look in their eyes, like Hawaii today because you really think that this person would want to be wait you're saying I mean, maybe, but maybe that.

00:38:37.170 --> 00:38:54.780 Judi Miller: i've heard i've heard studies that have been done, where you do something nice for someone else and actually it's not just the recipient of the deed, the benefits, but from a you know, scientific and you know all these different tests, they can perform we actually benefit.

00:38:55.320 --> 00:38:56.970 Judi Miller: Just as much or even more.

00:38:57.330 --> 00:39:03.450 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely absolutely well believe we do benefit more.

00:39:05.820 --> 00:39:18.030 Georgeann Dau: that's, why do we really do we really ever do anything fully for someone else I don't think, so I think we do it for someone else but really we're receiving the gift, I know I do.

00:39:18.420 --> 00:39:18.780 Judi Miller: mm hmm.

00:39:18.990 --> 00:39:21.750 Georgeann Dau: I do right, I mean.

00:39:24.060 --> 00:39:38.610 Judi Miller: So now, I know that you probably know, this quote from the Bible much better than I do, but the gist of it is basically when we do good for others, we don't announce it we don't announce it to the world we do it absolutely.

00:39:39.000 --> 00:39:47.130 Georgeann Dau: We don't have to announce it unless we don't feel like we're enough, and then we define ourselves by.

00:39:47.880 --> 00:39:57.480 Georgeann Dau: How we show up how we how we act in the outer world because we're still insecure by the inner world.

00:39:58.110 --> 00:40:11.100 Georgeann Dau: And then we would need to announce it but there's no real reason to do it it'll all right, you see everything in scripture has a reason has a purpose it wasn't just said by Jesus, you know or any of the.

00:40:11.580 --> 00:40:27.090 Georgeann Dau: You know other biblical figures, although Jesus is certainly the main character, but um you know, for the sake of just not you know just set the just saying it it had a very, very deep message and deep implication.

00:40:29.010 --> 00:40:40.350 Georgeann Dau: And all sin is from the original Greek is to turn away from God to turn away from what you're feeling and your very Center to know as truth.

00:40:41.640 --> 00:40:54.690 Georgeann Dau: and turn away from God and go live your own broken will, because if we're not embracing and we all struggle with it, but we're on a journey.

00:40:55.260 --> 00:41:12.030 Georgeann Dau: If we don't embrace the part of ourselves, that is, the higher part of ourselves, and we go through life just quote in the human form, without any stretch to our divinity.

00:41:13.200 --> 00:41:17.730 Georgeann Dau: we're always then living out of a sort of a broken state.

00:41:18.180 --> 00:41:18.570 Judi Miller: mm hmm.

00:41:18.660 --> 00:41:21.510 Georgeann Dau: Because we're not stretching my making sense.

00:41:22.230 --> 00:41:31.740 Judi Miller: You absolutely making sense, and I know that we have to take take a break in a in a minute or two, but you know when we come back from the break i'd love to hear your perspective, you know, on your journey.

00:41:32.130 --> 00:41:39.810 Judi Miller: What are the two or three truths that you've uncovered for yourself, and it may be different for everyone, but what's your George jan's truths.

00:41:39.870 --> 00:41:44.760 Georgeann Dau: Yes, and there are some in there are many i'll tell you mine, if you tell me yours.

00:41:45.900 --> 00:41:47.670 Judi Miller: Absolutely absolutely.

00:41:49.560 --> 00:41:56.400 Georgeann Dau: that's great though I hope everyone is enjoying the show, I know I am I bet you Judy.

00:41:56.610 --> 00:41:58.590 Judi Miller: i'm having lots of fun, always with you.

00:41:58.890 --> 00:42:03.150 Georgeann Dau: Always it's so great, and you know we're so grateful to.

00:42:04.200 --> 00:42:13.410 Georgeann Dau: You know those that are working behind the scenes to make this possible i'm just so many people Sam being one of them Emily another.

00:42:14.610 --> 00:42:29.190 Georgeann Dau: woven and so many people behind the scenes, so we say thank you to them so we'll be right back to a journey through into awareness and again i'm Dr George and Dell and we have.

00:42:30.060 --> 00:42:30.360 Judi Miller: To do.

00:42:31.410 --> 00:42:34.350 Georgeann Dau: mela yay we'll be right back.

00:45:03.360 --> 00:45:10.020 Judi Miller: So George and I would love to hear on your journey, what are some of the truths that you have uncovered would love to share with us.

00:45:12.690 --> 00:45:13.800 Well, I don't know where to start.

00:45:18.630 --> 00:45:20.040 Georgeann Dau: I know, absolutely.

00:45:21.360 --> 00:45:25.620 Georgeann Dau: that the most important thing to me is.

00:45:27.480 --> 00:45:30.930 Georgeann Dau: gratitude that no matter what goes on.

00:45:32.580 --> 00:45:39.000 Georgeann Dau: I absolutely look and recognize that there is gratitude.

00:45:40.590 --> 00:45:56.160 Georgeann Dau: That must be had even if I don't understand what's happening, and I can even feel upset about it, I do believe, and I walk in faith that there was something higher going on, then I grasp understand or recognize in the moment.

00:45:57.360 --> 00:45:59.730 Georgeann Dau: I believe in.

00:46:02.250 --> 00:46:14.010 Georgeann Dau: I believe that there is one God, I believe that Jesus Christ which Jesus is less than him is not Christ Jesus is the Christ that he is.

00:46:15.210 --> 00:46:22.170 Georgeann Dau: Certainly, a god's only begotten son be gotten meaning be got not made.

00:46:24.900 --> 00:46:28.440 Georgeann Dau: Be just being not made like we're all made.

00:46:30.210 --> 00:46:36.000 Georgeann Dau: Always was and my relationship with the Lord.

00:46:38.340 --> 00:46:38.880 Georgeann Dau: and

00:46:40.410 --> 00:46:41.070 Georgeann Dau: That.

00:46:44.100 --> 00:46:45.360 Georgeann Dau: Love is the answer.

00:46:47.040 --> 00:46:51.810 Georgeann Dau: Love is the absolute answer, even when I don't feel loving.

00:46:53.580 --> 00:47:01.830 Georgeann Dau: I know that it is something about myself that I need to recognize and own.

00:47:03.090 --> 00:47:09.180 Georgeann Dau: And that there's nothing in this life that I could ever look at and.

00:47:10.410 --> 00:47:31.230 Georgeann Dau: recognize that I didn't do something to create it, I am absolutely full creator of my life with God and when things do not go the way I wanted them to it is absolutely due to something I did or didn't do and I own it I own my life.

00:47:32.370 --> 00:47:32.670 Judi Miller: hmm.

00:47:34.410 --> 00:47:48.240 Judi Miller: I like that I like that, and I just have to comments, so what you share it because I think it was so beautiful, you know you talked about the importance of gratitude and I really believe that life is meant to be celebrated.

00:47:49.800 --> 00:47:54.240 Judi Miller: That part of our job is to celebrate every moment to find joy.

00:47:54.330 --> 00:48:02.820 Georgeann Dau: And you do that well you really do do you have that spirit, you really, really do and it's one of the things I love about you.

00:48:05.700 --> 00:48:23.850 Judi Miller: Thank you, but you know in this busy world we often get so caught up in all the things that we have to do, and I invite listeners to every day just for five or 10 minutes find joy do something that brings you joy for no other reason than the fact that it brings you joy.

00:48:25.470 --> 00:48:27.120 Georgeann Dau: I love that yes.

00:48:27.780 --> 00:48:34.500 Judi Miller: And then the other one that you said that I really loved as well as about love right, and you know before I go to bed every night.

00:48:35.130 --> 00:48:48.870 Judi Miller: I look for one thing that might even be difficult, that I could love into, and it could be something small, because I think it's like a muscle, the more that we do it, the easier it becomes yes.

00:48:49.230 --> 00:48:52.380 Georgeann Dau: and Judy, do you agree with that love starts with self.

00:48:53.160 --> 00:49:00.720 Judi Miller: Absolutely, I believe we are love and when we search out there for it right it's really all in here.

00:49:00.960 --> 00:49:02.730 Yes, yes.

00:49:04.680 --> 00:49:05.250 Georgeann Dau: What else.

00:49:06.240 --> 00:49:07.200 Judi Miller: um so.

00:49:07.590 --> 00:49:08.010 Many.

00:49:09.600 --> 00:49:17.880 Judi Miller: So the the two or three truths, for me, is you know I went through a spiritual experience several years ago, and I think the reason I was able to do it was because my heart.

00:49:18.420 --> 00:49:24.990 Judi Miller: was literally wide open I let go of all those stories those labels and those judgments that ran most of my life.

00:49:25.410 --> 00:49:38.580 Judi Miller: And you know early on the show we were talking about when we judge and label, you know people and things we create that barrier between us and other people, and we became we create a barrier between us and the Creator, so when I was able to let go of that.

00:49:40.260 --> 00:49:50.040 Judi Miller: I was able to open my heart and so many profound things came through and the three truths for me is that were unconditionally loved and accepted by the Creator.

00:49:52.110 --> 00:49:53.640 Judi Miller: The other one is that.

00:49:54.660 --> 00:49:55.140 You know.

00:49:56.640 --> 00:50:14.580 Judi Miller: we're never alone never abandoned, you know George and most of the information that we process as humans come through our eyes 85% of it, but we actually have 10,000 times more sensory receptors than motor receptors and there's so much that we can't see.

00:50:15.540 --> 00:50:21.720 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely, and what you're saying that's it it's so profound is that when infant.

00:50:22.860 --> 00:50:37.410 Georgeann Dau: is born, it cannot see all it takes in is from the energy around it all the energy entering like a sponge into this tiny little creature.

00:50:38.940 --> 00:50:42.810 Georgeann Dau: there's so much I could say about that, but anyway, yes I love that yeah.

00:50:43.350 --> 00:50:46.290 Judi Miller: And not only that, but we are never alone.

00:50:46.740 --> 00:50:48.300 Judi Miller: Now we are surrounded by the.

00:50:48.300 --> 00:50:54.870 Judi Miller: creator our angels our ancestors our guides and then the last one, is something that you mentioned earlier.

00:50:55.470 --> 00:51:10.710 Judi Miller: We are already born worthy, there is nothing to prove and when we get rid of that feeling to always have to prove ourselves to always prove that we are worthy when we let go of that struggle life becomes so much easier.

00:51:11.430 --> 00:51:21.120 Georgeann Dau: So much easier by not embracing ourselves that we are enough that brings great suffering.

00:51:23.370 --> 00:51:35.250 Judi Miller: And you know what I love about you so much, George and you know we believe a lot of the same things but we arrive at it in very different ways and we describe it in very different ways, so I think it's great for listeners because everybody.

00:51:35.640 --> 00:51:38.370 Judi Miller: You know here's it a little bit differently, yes.

00:51:39.960 --> 00:51:46.740 Judi Miller: So George and i'd love to know what are the two to three practices that you do every day that listeners can learn from.

00:51:48.390 --> 00:52:00.450 Georgeann Dau: I sit with God in my prayer space every day and many times, I am just filled with myself my own ramblings in my head in my heart.

00:52:01.110 --> 00:52:29.910 Georgeann Dau: i'm feeling totally disconnected and many times, I am very much at one with God and all creation and both or in May it's my free will, of which I want to start my day with and live out of, but I have to have awareness of what the heck is going on in here for me to be able to choose.

00:52:31.020 --> 00:52:43.860 Georgeann Dau: So that is a practice and i'm i'm always a in recognition of the presence of creator in all things i'm.

00:52:45.090 --> 00:52:46.650 Georgeann Dau: In all things and.

00:52:49.080 --> 00:52:49.950 Georgeann Dau: Just loving.

00:52:51.300 --> 00:53:05.130 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely even like I said, even when I might not feel it just stepping past feeling because we're not our feelings feelings of things we have like gas.

00:53:08.340 --> 00:53:09.330 Georgeann Dau: are feeling.

00:53:11.190 --> 00:53:11.670 Georgeann Dau: So.

00:53:12.000 --> 00:53:20.460 Georgeann Dau: Below like push through and I show up again, as the woman, I believe deeply I am.

00:53:21.120 --> 00:53:22.590 Judi Miller: and show up that's.

00:53:23.670 --> 00:53:25.200 Judi Miller: that's beautiful that's beautiful.

00:53:26.970 --> 00:53:29.490 Judi Miller: Now, whenever I think of that i'm going to think of gas.

00:53:30.540 --> 00:53:31.620 Georgeann Dau: Hopefully, everybody else.

00:53:33.780 --> 00:53:35.970 Georgeann Dau: we're not talking about case you put in the car okay.

00:53:37.920 --> 00:53:46.410 Judi Miller: So so George and one of the most important things for me is to slow down the mind, we know that the mind creates stories that are not always true in our mind just.

00:53:46.680 --> 00:53:54.210 Judi Miller: You know whirls around like a fan that goes so fast always looking for contrast always looking for what's wrong always looking for what can hurt us.

00:53:54.540 --> 00:54:07.740 Judi Miller: So one of the most important practices for me is to slow down the mind to the same frequency, as my body and as my heart to teach my mind to listen to my heart and the way that I do it is in multiple different ways, one of them's through prayer.

00:54:09.330 --> 00:54:18.150 Judi Miller: prayer slows down my mind it gets me in touch with my heart another way is meditation it slows down my mind to be walking in nature.

00:54:19.050 --> 00:54:33.690 Judi Miller: In that all that sense of awe and then also just anything that creates a sense of reverence and it gets back to what you were saying before that sense of gratitude that sense of reference is what does it for me, yes, love it.

00:54:34.290 --> 00:54:39.240 Georgeann Dau: it's amazing and we can talk about this next week, we have.

00:54:40.290 --> 00:55:02.070 Georgeann Dau: Dr Stephen why son and incredible energetic healer an osteopath um but you know again how we came to each other, really was anointed by God, and this this great stories around this will share at one point, but before we end show he ends in prayer.

00:55:02.880 --> 00:55:04.530 Judi Miller: sounds wonderful that sounds beautiful.

00:55:04.590 --> 00:55:06.810 Georgeann Dau: Would it be okay, if I said the prayer tonight.

00:55:07.020 --> 00:55:08.130 Judi Miller: Please okay.

00:55:09.270 --> 00:55:09.750 Georgeann Dau: So.

00:55:11.130 --> 00:55:21.060 Georgeann Dau: loving God you fill all things with the fullness and hope that we can never comprehend, thank you for leading us into a time.

00:55:21.570 --> 00:55:34.650 Georgeann Dau: Where more of reality is being unveiled to us all to see, we pray that you will take away our natural temptation for cynicism denial, fear and despair.

00:55:35.070 --> 00:55:46.290 Georgeann Dau: Help us recognize and have the courage to awaken to the greater truth gritty humility and Greta care for one another as you continue to teach us at a love.

00:55:46.710 --> 00:55:53.820 Georgeann Dau: met we place our hope in what matters and what lasts trusting in your eternal presence and love.

00:55:54.690 --> 00:56:05.700 Georgeann Dau: And we pray all of this, knowing good God that you are hearing us better than we are speaking we offer these prayers in all of the Holy names of God.

00:56:06.270 --> 00:56:22.380 Georgeann Dau: amen amen know what do we are Judy you and I, I love it Thank you everyone for joining us we're so grateful that you join us and we hope that this is nourishing to you and we look forward to seeing you next week.

00:56:23.790 --> 00:56:24.630 Georgeann Dau: goodnight any.

00:56:25.020 --> 00:56:25.620 Judi Miller: good night.

00:56:27.360 --> 00:56:28.410 Georgeann Dau: See you next week.

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